As a second date, I went to lunch and a baseball game with a girl that I had met a few weeks ago. It went very well... we both had a good time and kissed at the end of the date.
Anyways, I know she's a busy girl, but I am wondering if I am over analyzing my current situation. The second date happened last Sunday. We agreed that we should do something again soon. I text messeged her on Wednesday and called (no answer, left a message) for her on Thursday. Haven't heard back from her yet.
I guess my general question is... am I being paranoid here that I haven't heard from her since Sunday in any way?
2007-05-12 16:20:51 · 5 answers · asked by kd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't assume that it's personal against you... perhaps something unexpected and important has come up!
Call again and ask if everything is OK with her because you are concerned since you haven't heard from her. Then say that you hope all is well and that you hope to talk to her soon.
2007-05-12 16:27:33 · answer #1 · answered by HearKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to feel paranoid. No one can ever be too busy to pick up a phone to talk to someone, even if it is for two or three minutes. If you have not heard from her and you left a text and message, it is obvious she is not interested in you. Move on. If she happen to call you sometime in the week, pick up her call and hear her story. If she ask you out give her an excuse as to why you can not attend or tell her straight forward that you are not interested. But if you really like her and want to see where it will lead then by all means go for it. Remember, no one can tell you what to do and how to do it, you have to decide for yourself.
2007-05-12 16:38:24 · answer #2 · answered by Mollypoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhh for a second date, not hearing from her for this long, yeah you should worry.
Once a chick is interested, the longest she waits to call back is one night at most otherwise she isnt interested.
sorry
2007-05-12 16:25:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her now & see what's up. I think she should of at least called you or sent you a text, even if she is super busy.
2007-05-12 16:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by twogris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait a while for her. c if she responds. shes probly just biz. hope i helped.
2007-05-12 16:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by Auttum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋