Ok so the other day I was at the food court sitting down and talking to one of my friends on my cell phone about how he should take down this ugly painting in his condo becuase it looks like someone crapped all over it and did other groce things on it and it makes his house look ugly. So there was some really nosy old lady with her 2 sons sitting by me and she told me (not in a nice way) to shut up and stop talking about disgusting stuff becuase I'm eating and don't want to hear that. I said ok theres no need to be rude about it. then this lady started saying how I was being rude and she said that I am a disgrace to society. She was making this huge seen several people were watching and she said she was insulting me.
I then just lost it and said it's people that you that make me loose my apetite becuase of your ugly face that looks like sh*t and then i told her to go F**k her kids with a strap on. Everyone was in shock and I immediatly left after that. This lady is messed up badly.
2007-05-12 11:55:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I mean seriously when I'm sitting down and having lunch at the mall I don't need these screwed up people harassing me and making scenes about my phone conversation. Allthough the guy I was talking to couldn't stop laughing at what was going on he heard it all
2007-05-12 11:56:37 · update #1
I hate you tell you this but even though the lady might have been a little more polite and asked you to tone it down on your phone you were definitely MUCH more rude than her. Especially since you cursed in front of her children. Maybe you need to get a massage and relax, calm down, reduce some tension man...
2007-05-12 12:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by jdancy 1 · 6⤊ 0⤋
You were in the wrong for not being considerate of those around you, and she was in the wrong by the way she asked you to get off the phone.
You should have your conversation in a private part of the mall and not where everyone is eating if you plan to speak about vulgar things.
No one wants to hear other peoples conversations anyway. I hate cellular phones.
2007-05-12 21:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you were the one at fault completely and totally. She should have moved to another table, but who could blame her for being frazzled by wrangling two kids. No one wants to hear your loud whining at lunch and you were obviously using words not meant for decent society.
But someone who thinks he can make decisions on his friends decorating choices and impose his will is obviously not really interested in etiquette or being more polite and will likely ignore this answer.
2007-05-13 03:54:27 · answer #3 · answered by SnakEve 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You were wrong. You were, obviously, louder than necessary, talking about very gross things. I'm sure you didn't say "crapped" either.
Then you make crude, vulgar comments to her in front of her CHILDREN.
You are the one who is disgusting and messed up, pal. Too bad you're still a child, I'd have thought anyone old enough to have friends who have their own apartments would be grown up enough to know how to act in public...... Obviously, I would have been wrong.
2007-05-12 19:17:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you were loud and it was disgusting then I could understand where she was coming from. However you said she wasn't nice so I think both of you got what you deserved in a way.
2007-05-12 19:40:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were on your cell phone, chances are you were speakng too loudly as you are talking about "crapping on a painting".
I would have told you to shut up, too. You're the nuisance, not her.
2007-05-13 09:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by andicat14 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Exactly, what is wrong with some people? To tell a complete stranger to "go F**k her kids with a strap on" no matter what she'd said to provoke him? You're right... there is something seriously wrong with this person, and he probably needs therapy or perhaps an anti-psychotic medication.
And thank you for pointing out how rude it is to engage in a loud, inappropriate conversation in public... on a cell phone, no less. Some people simply have no class.
2007-05-12 19:06:19 · answer #7 · answered by Clint 3 · 7⤊ 3⤋
YOU ARE THE ONE WHO IS IN THE WRONG HERE.
People don't want to hear about gross crap when they are eating. When they are trying to enjoy their meal, turn off your damn cell phone, or go somewhere where it isn't so crowded. You were over the top and totally out of line to tell her to go f'''' her kids. Apparently, you were raised with no manners or courtesy.
You acted like a pig and I hope you get yours from someone else along the way, as life has a way of evening the score.
2007-05-12 19:05:06 · answer #8 · answered by nowyouknow 7 · 7⤊ 2⤋
I believe you were the rude one. If you were talking loud enough for an old lady to hear, then you were talking too loud. Not to mention, your choice of conversation during lunch. If you had any respect, you would have apologized. Your parting comments proved your immaturity.
2007-05-12 19:06:52 · answer #9 · answered by Candace A 5 · 7⤊ 2⤋
well while i dont think you should have said what you said to her i do think she wrong for being rude to you.she should have one, moved somewhere else or two,asked you in a nicer way to be quiet or not talk about that.
2007-05-12 23:34:12 · answer #10 · answered by go tribe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋