It seems like I am infatuated with Masturbation. Just talking about it on fourms and stuff gives me a rush. The fact that other people know my masturbation habits kinda turns me on. Is this normal? Is there something wrong with me? I'm a 20 year old college virgen and consider myself to be straight if that helps. I just don't know if this much concern for masturbation is healthy for someone my age. Maybe i'm just
horny because I never got any or maybe there is something wrong withme.
I also just like to be naked (thats why I am considering going to a nude beach). I don't want to go to a nude beach for anything sexual just to be naked. Is there anything wrong with me for someone my age?
Do you think my masturbation problems are normal? Do you think I should get up enough guts to go to a nude beach? I can really use some help!
Thanks!!!
2007-05-12 10:54:40 · 21 answers · asked by lessaba 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I guess my question is not if I am normal but if this is a usual thing with people my age.
2007-05-12 11:05:22 · update #1
And I am also a Male if that helps.
To sum it up i'm 20 years old in college and I am a Male and a virgen.
2007-05-12 11:21:16 · update #2
Well it's good to know you're out there.
BTW it's "virgin".
2007-05-12 13:23:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, that level of obsession with masturbation is not quite normal; it's not the usual even for a 20-year old virgin man, but it's not hurting you or anybody else, so its fine.
And yes, you should get up the guts to go to a nude beach. Take a tube of SPF 40... and apply to certain areas before you leave the house (just think about applying to those areas in public).
2007-05-12 19:14:30 · answer #2 · answered by Clint 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all honey, it's virgin. Not virgen. Use spell check next time.
I would say that, for your age, having such a deep infatuation with masturbation and everything that it entails is pretty abnormal. This is more expected with say, a 13 or 14 year old boy. Someone who is just beginning puberty and realizing their sexuality. But for a 20 year old? I would say you have a bit of a problem and that maybe you should get counseling for it.
As far as wanting to be naked all the time, well there are plenty of people out there like you when it comes to that. And they live in nudist colonies. Nudist colonies have consisted of more than 350 people. And they're slowly becoming more popular. If you're wanting to be naked all the time as a way of life and not for any sexual purposes (in other words simply because you enjoy and are comfortable being naked all the time) then joining one of these might be the answer for you.
2007-05-18 15:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by Angela B 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
You can go to a nude beach.
You can masturbate.
But you'll probably get in trouble if you do both at the same time. 8^)
You're fine; don't worry about anything. I'd wager the only times an obsession with masturbation would become an issue is if you start doing it in public places, or you get married and end up preferring it to "the real thing."
And lots of people go to nude beaches, so it's nothing out of the ordinary.
2007-05-12 19:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, masturbation is normal, and is very common for 20. The reason you are so obsessed with masturbation and nudity is that you are not getting any sex, and nature has designed your mind and body to seek it at your age.
You have to decide which of your urges you should answer the most - the social rules of your particular religion or culture or belief system, or nature's rules about your mind and body.... or both, in measured ways, or whatever suits your circumstances, opportunities and decisions.
2007-05-20 09:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that you are a little pent up sexually. This isn't necessarily a bad thing because we are sexual creatures and it is a basic need that "needs" to be fulfilled. Maybe concentrate on trying to get a girl or girlfriend and then you can have all the sex you want. \
And YES go to a nude beach it shows that you are comfortable with your body which is a rarity in today's society.
2007-05-20 01:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by MrBubba69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is perfectly normal. 95 to 99 percent of people practice on a regular basis, particularly when not in a relationship.
I would not recommend going to a nude beach for the purpose of getting your rocks off, but I do advocate for going for the purpose of freedom. Go, enjoy the day, but don't masturbate in public - that will get you yelled at (at best) or arrested and cited (at worst), and it could endanger the status of the nude beach for the rest of us!
2007-05-13 15:41:27 · answer #7 · answered by Dave 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is normal among men and practiced by almost all boys / men and there is nothing to be ashamed of. When one gets old enough to understand the pleasures of masturbation and ejaculation , he will naturally go for that if he does not have a woman.
To be naked is also not wrong in the sense that if God wanted us to be robed, He would have made us to wear one. Since He has made us naked, it is only for our protection we are wearing dress.
2007-05-20 10:39:19 · answer #8 · answered by rajan l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excessive maturbation can be used like a drug to allay feelings of depression , it boosts the seratonin levels in the brain.
Think about it are you depressed , if so go to a doctor and get anti depressdants , you are onlly taking an unsatisfactory way to eleviate your depression
2007-05-18 06:41:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're fine.
Are you Male or Female?
I have friends who like nude beaches.
2007-05-12 18:18:13 · answer #10 · answered by elliebear 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try talking to psychologist to find out if this is normal. He /she is qualified to answer the question.
2007-05-20 16:35:02 · answer #11 · answered by lotus1s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋