2007-05-12 10:25:12 · 12 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nope, he's with me now. I don't dwell on who's he's been with and he doesn't ask me...there's no need to worry about the past. But I do have to say protect yourself if your partner has been with many people. Get STI test frequently and always use a condom.
2007-05-12 10:28:56 · answer #1 · answered by Steven's Mommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Just accept that your lover has been with people before you. It doesn't matter how many people or how good looking they were or how your lover felt about them... fact of the matter is that you're with them now and that's all that matters.
Wonder about the people your lover or spouse might be with *during* your relationship.
2007-05-12 17:29:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes but i've learned from personal experiences not to worry about the past because worring to much about the past can mess up your future.
2007-05-12 17:29:16 · answer #3 · answered by tasheema22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't. But my spouse drives me nuts by telling me that he wonders about my past.
2007-05-12 17:28:34 · answer #4 · answered by Torrejon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No he was pretty young and inexperienced when I met him. I know all about the women he was with before me; he likes bragging! I don't even care.
2007-05-12 18:48:20 · answer #5 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
should have thought that before making commitment....doesnt look like a girl to take home to mom....then shes not! if the relationship is going ok if theres respect etc....u have the last say so
2007-05-12 17:30:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. We're in our 40s, so we both came clean.
Too much water under our bridges NOT to, at our age!
2007-05-12 17:28:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the person is good enough to have a relationship with should thier past not be good enough to not bother you also?
2007-05-12 17:31:03 · answer #8 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, because if I was in a relationship, I wouldn't want him wondering about my life before him.... I'd answer if he asked... but, unless asked, my past is MY past and personal... make sense?
2007-05-12 17:28:47 · answer #9 · answered by Ramon's Wifey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're suppose to. Diseases, pregnancies, germs, experiance....all that stuff is stuff to think about when you're sexually active with someone.
2007-05-12 17:28:06 · answer #10 · answered by Cathy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋