2007-05-12 09:58:43 · 28 answers · asked by wualle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Y'know...I was in a relationship like that for about a year...save yourself the headaches...dont bother...there's plenty of single women out there...
2007-05-12 14:14:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's too risky to pursue a woman who is unhappily married. what if she works things out with her husband? what if she decides not to leave her husband? if she's honest and up front with you, there are still aspects that could arise before she gets a divorce and it could be messy for the both of you.
2007-05-12 10:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by James 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. First of all, all marriages go through rough patches, and many of them can be fixed if the people involved are willing to work at them.
Second, one of the classic ways for someone to go looking for a little "fun on the side" is to claim that their partner is a horrible person who doesn't care about them, etc. They get sympathy and all the benefits of being courted, and still have hubby at home to bring home a paycheck and mow the lawn or whatever. She will probably never leave him, or if she does, she'll go with someone else.
Frankly, getting involved with any married person is asking to get your heart broken.
2007-05-12 10:05:20 · answer #3 · answered by triviatm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that if she cheats with you, then she will cheat on you. No questions asked, it will happen, trust me, I have been on the cheating side and the cheated on side. Give her time, encourage her to seek a unbiased opinion with a therapist and let the marriage issue become resolved first. Secondary advice on this subject: make sure enough time elapses after the divorce before you begin dating. This ensures that enough healing has occured before the feelings of a new relationship begin.
2007-05-12 10:05:18 · answer #4 · answered by brainybusiness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really in love with her or just looking to score with an emotionally vulnerable woman? If so let it go. If in your heart you know she'd be happier with you, and you know her feelings for you are real be honest. tell her how you feel, but you want to be with her honestly. don't give her an easy way out of a problem that can be solved. suggest she keep trying with her husband to work things out and get therapy. if the marriage is unsolvable give it time and don't rush it. let her come to you with a clear head and conscience. Personally, I wouldn't mess with someone married but you never know do you? maybe people are miserable in marriages because their not with their kindred spirits.
Vin
2007-05-12 10:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sneaking here and sneaking there, quickie here, quickie there. Waiting here, waiting there. This excuse, that excuse. If he answers, hang up. Walk around feeling like a damn criminal. Is this something you think you seriously want to do? I could go on but it probably wouldn't do any good. No one ever listens to experience anyway. If I had your address I would send you a get well soon card.
2007-05-12 10:12:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she seriously intend on getting a divorce? Like is she only steps away from doing so? If not, then my answer is going to be no.
2007-05-12 10:00:55 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
If she is still married, then maybe they will be able to work through the differences - and you cannot be the judge of whether they will or not.
2007-05-12 10:01:55 · answer #8 · answered by Olkina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she cares about you then she will end up her marriage. The feamle is unhappy with her husband so she will do anything to get rid of unhappiness.
2007-05-12 10:02:27 · answer #9 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. The point is that she is still married.
2007-05-12 10:03:30 · answer #10 · answered by Black 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋