last weekend, and the language that followed. The force of his language scared me, and reinforced the safety issue of my daughter with him. Yet, that night he stayed and slept in her bedroom with him. Does she not see where her future is going? Is she afraid of what he might do? Has he already control over her? Do I step in and say something...........or do I wait and see if she will do this on her own.
I have , after last weekend told her that I am here if she would like talk with me. I told her that I love her very much and I want her to be happy.
Where do I go from here??????
2007-05-12 09:28:50 · 6 answers · asked by Joyce D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't know what to say...is pretty late ..
to overcome things like these ..i told my daughter since she was 8 ..what kind of boy she must like..
well she is 10 now..and she likes the boy i also would like like a son....so it works good..email me ..for details..if you want..
2007-05-12 09:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let go!
Sometimes the more you care for what you kids are doing, the easier it is for them to mistake your concern as prying or that you don't trust them!
Which causes the exact opposite to happen.
The best that we can do is to bring them up in an environment that gives them the values to help them be the best that they can be.
Then hold your breath and paint a smile on when they tell you what they want to do, and pray that the things you said to them as they grew-up, really stuck!
Being there for them when they stumble will be the next best thing and when they make the correct choice, praise them!
Good Luck!
2007-05-12 16:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get your head out of the ground and be a mom. You don't allow a guy to have sex in your house. So if your that dumb I guess you cook and clean for him and her illigitmate babbies too. You'll be held accountable here. Wait and see.
2007-05-12 16:37:12 · answer #3 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe mention that you are a bit worried about him, but don't say that he is terrible and forbid her to see him or something. She might stick with him just because you don't like him. If he is verbally abusing her then that is very bad.
2007-05-12 16:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by Kady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, you just keep on meddling in their lives and I'm sure you'll eventually get the result you want, and your little girlie will be back under your thumb where you want her.
CD
2007-05-12 16:37:17 · answer #5 · answered by Super Atheist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember you are the mother. Be there for her. Make it clear that if she ever needs to talk to you, you'll be there. But dont push or you'll end up the bad guy.
2007-05-12 16:35:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋