all my friends have them and they make fun of me because i do not have one. i just cant find anyone right is this normal or should i not be so picky about who i choose?
2007-05-12 08:21:40 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it is normal
2007-05-12 08:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by kc 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 16, and have never had a boyfriend. Obviously, theres nothing wrong here. Just wait for the girl you really really want too be with, and ask her! It doesn't have to be soon. Many people don't date until college. Don't fret the smal stuff. At that age, relationships rarely last, anyway. It's smarter to wait. As for your friends: REAL friends won't make fun of you. Explain it to them, and if they pressure you, it may be time for new friends. Just relax, you'll find the right girl someday! :) Good luck!
Btw: Its soo sweet that you're looking for the right one. If i was your age, I'd definetly want to date you. lol. You seem like a nice kid, so don't worry so much.
2007-05-12 15:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal. I got my first boyfriend when I was 13.
Some people don't even get a boyfriend/girlfriend tilll their 20 or older. The time will come when the time is right for you. It's better off being single sometimes instead of being hurt or rejected. Your time will come and don't worry about it. Your still young, have fun, laugh. Don't get pressured by your friends.
2007-05-12 15:25:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it. You are only 13. You are just emerging from "cootie" phase. You are just hitting your teenage years and are just getting interested in girls and dating them. You are probably socially awkward and do not know how to approach one at ask out for a date yet. Give it some time.
You can start working on getting a girlfriend by talking to and flirting with as many girls as you come in contact. That way you become more confident and comfortable around girls and in turn make you more attractive.
2007-05-12 15:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very normal.
It's also normal for you to be upset by our friends. Be brave and be youself. When the right girl comes along you'll know it. Don't go get a girlfriend just because you think you're supposed to.
2007-05-12 15:27:07 · answer #5 · answered by Cattlemanbob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completely normal. Wait til the right one comes along and dont worry so much about what everybody else says. They dont know anything anyhow. You will find a girl when the time is right.
2007-05-12 15:25:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about it i am the same age as you and it really doesnt matter if you have no girlfriend and if ur mates r making fun of u then tell them u r waiting for the right love and not just a player like them if u wanna have fun with girls just ask them out ur mates r prob just show offs. but really that ur mates r showing off thats not nice if u luv sumbody then u do boasting on about em is not nice like they are some toys the girls i mean. we girls dont like our hearts getting broken and stuff.so dont worry about it if u do have a girl friend dont show off about em remeber we r no toys or sumthing. hope this helps best of luck
2007-05-12 15:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totatlly normal! yr only 13 which mean u have hips of time n chances! one may come along unexpectedly! don worry its not that of a big issue!! 2 be honest i can't be bothered 2 worry on that issue of a boyfriend..!lol but u just carry on d usual n bang u might meet sum1! mabe ur time is not come yet lol be patient i guess!! gud luck!
2007-05-12 16:04:35 · answer #8 · answered by *Jgsummer* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont listen to your mates!
everyone will find that right person wether it takes them a long time or not.
most of your friends are probably only going out the girlfriend just to show it off!
its probably not even real love!
Wait for the MAGIC moment! it will come
i promise!!
x x
2007-05-12 15:33:12 · answer #9 · answered by everybodylookatme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it you're still young. All the relationships you have when you're 13 are meaningless anyway so just think of them as practice for later.
2007-05-12 15:24:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋