hey everyone please help me with kissing =]?

Question

i need someone to tell me the BEST way to kiss a guy.. do i touch him on his head or like shoulder or like is it best sitting down or standing up.please explain!.. best advice with longest advice will get best answer..

Answer 1

A kiss is something you customize as you get to know what you like and don't. Should you stand or sit depends on who and where you are kissing. If you are at a movie and the right moment approaches then...well I wouldn't stand up and kiss...lol. Okay, sorry, I know this is serious...

First things is first, lets take off some of the pressure for you. Let him initiate the kiss. If he initiates the kiss then you don't have to worry about sitting or standing because it would be in response to him. So obviously if he's standing so are you, and if he's sitting, so are you. Second, hands where you place your hands have a lot to do with what you feel in the moment. Example, you are standing there talking to each other and he glares into your eyes and begins to draw closer to you, his lips are somewhat puckered so you know what's coming, when he begins to kiss you close your eyes and turn your head slightly. Now, your hands will know what to do based on what you feel. If you feel just nice you'll probably place your arms around his neck. If there's some passion you'll probably draw him in, same position but you tighten the hold to pull him closer. If he's way taller then you, you'll probably put your arms underneath both of his arms in kind of a hugging position but your elbows are going to be a lot lower than your hands.

Don't worry so much. Your body has a way of reacting that will work out. We all have learned at one point or another. If this is your first kiss, let him get you started. You'll start figuring out what you like and don't like as you go along.

Good luck.....Oh, one last thing, don't tighten up your lips or should I say don't let your lips tighten from nerves be relaxed it will flow. Good Luck again.

Answer 2

okay so the best thing to do when you are kissing a guy try not to think about it!!! the more technically you think about it the less passionate the kiss will be and it will feel like he's kissing a fish! but um, tease him a little before the kiss by just opening your mouth a little and go right up to his lips, let him feel your breathe for a few seconds, just lightly. if he doesn't go in for it then just lightly kiss his bottom lip. just kind of hug him with your hands on his back. he should be helping out by now and just go with the flow. keep your lips firm but soft (not all sloppy and slobbery you know) if you do want to use tongue, then just lighly push his with yours at first, you can also suck on his bottom lip a little. you can get a little more aggressive and put your hand on the back of his head and push a little(don't break his teeth or anything) and open your mouth a little wider to give him the cue to put a little more into it. if he doesn't then just give a couple of "swoops" with your tongue, but don't push your tongue all the way into his throat. after everything calms down just lightly kiss him a couple of times.

Answer 3

The best way is by wanting to kiss that particular person. One must let desire increase to its fullness and enjoy as much as one can everything before the kiss, say that a kiss is like life itself, it is everything you do before reaching the end that makes the difference, and death or the kiss the seal upon it. You might think I am nuts, but I believe that it is not the posture or how, but rather when, and who you kiss, although how it is very important. Say that you want to kiss that special someone, imagine their lips as the favorite food, fruit, etc you enjoy having, and think as if you don't want it to finish ever. I think desire, patience, and love make the perfect kiss. I hope it helps someway. Good luck

Answer 4

For the first kiss, it depends on where you are. If you are taking a walk, just start talking then sit down on a bench. Then slowly go forward to give a kiss, and gently give it too him holding onto him like your slow dancing.

Or if you're walking up to the door, you might want to hug him then holdonto him and kiss him lightly

It always works for me!

Answer 5

What is a kiss?
it can be many things

You simply be within your body
awaken your sensations of touch
respond to sensation with appropriate sounds or movements

A kiss will be whatever it will be, dependent upon how you both feel together.

Im sure others will provide specific mechanics so I won't go into it.

Answer 6

So is this acting class, or a show for him? Meet your lover with your desire, your eyes, your wanting touch and enjoy the aroma of loves intoxication while your heightening anticipation matches his. Let go of thoughts as you let your lips and body harmonize with every sensation of plesure that fill you.

Answer 7

i've got been given my first genuine kiss whilst i replaced into twelve. i replaced into going out with the boy for 2 months..we've been at a park jointly as baseball video games have been happening. he pulled me in the back of the fence of one of the video games and we kissed

Answer 8

Place your hands either lightly on his waist or his face. Standing up is probably easier for less experienced people :]

Answer 9

Well you'll know when the kiss is comin and so will ur bf and it will just sparkle but if it dosnt hes not 'the one'but if you know he's'the one'it will defently sparkle
!*Shyness*!

Answer 10

ok im a guy and i can totally help you out aight,,,,,,.....

Touch his cheak softly with one hand come in and tease a lil now slip in your tongue slowly i said slowly now ok just caress his tongue with yours and keep it slow if it fast it sucks! ok well trust me on this it is the best!