Ok - My best friend and her boyfriend have been going out for a few months - I have been hearing rumors about him cheating but i didn't know for sure so i didn't tell her! ( U know because i could have been wrong and hurt her fealings! ) but now i know for sure because he tryed to kiss me! We where all three out at a movie! He was driving! We dropped her off and he was bringing me home and he started kissing me when we got to my house! I told him that she was my best friend and i shouldn't have went along with him kissing me! But now he keeps trying to kiss me and hold my hand when she isn't around!
2007-05-12 05:23:46 · 31 answers · asked by Rachel W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you stole him, sounds like he stole you from your best friend. I think you should drop him, if he is doing this to her then he will do it to you. Tell her about this and kick him out of both of your lives.
2007-05-12 05:26:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you stole him because he is still HER boyfriend, right? But, clearly kissing & holding hands is a betrayal of your "best friend's" trust. That guy is bad news and you should never EVER allow yourself to be alone with him. By the way, it takes two people to kiss. If you're having fantasies of him becoming your boyfriend, give it up. Even if it were to happen, he'll do the same thing to you. At this point, you may have cost yourself a friendship, but it seems like the best thing you can do now is to tell her what happened. But first, you need to get clear in your own head about why you kissed him, and what your intentions are from this point out. Because she will want to know that and it seems that you owe her at least that. I imagine it's also possible that she will respect you for being honest and eventually grow to trust you again. But, if you're not honest and she finds out what happened, it will probably cause her serious pain. If you care about her, don't be the source of her pain. Do the right thing!
2007-05-12 05:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing I would do would be completely avoiding the situation. If he's driving home get dropped off at your friends house with her and ask for a separate ride home after he's left. While you're there explain the situation to your friend. With you there instead of taking off with himi it shows you care for her more than you do her boyfriend so she should be a little more accepting of the fact.
If it continues and/or she doesn't believe you, I would avoid him completely to avoid hurting the friend. Friendships are more important than looking 'good' by having a relationship that would most likely not last.
2007-05-12 05:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT kiss him back!!!!!!!!!!!! Be a friend, Friends last forever, the dumb guys you go out with DON"T
Tell your friend about the rumors of him cheating, then tell her about him trying to kiss you, then you say "I told him NO, because my friendship with you is more important". She'll be upset, but at him, not you.
Just be her friend, hold her hand if she's upset or starts crying & tell her this guy was a jerk & she's a beautiful woman who deserves better.
Then go out to the movies yourselves.
2007-05-12 05:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Emily1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all,you're a VERY BAD FRIEND for letting him kiss you,and tell your friend-wouldn't you want to know if you had a bf and he was cheating on you? I would.
2007-05-12 05:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your friend what's happened, she deserves the truth, if you're any kind of friend. Why would you want to let he be with such a sleeze. Tell hikm to keep his hands to himself, ask your self why you kissed him, not as good freind are you?
2007-05-12 05:27:56 · answer #6 · answered by Monkey Dancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer think of your chum is extremely a chum because of the fact why did she thieve your boyfriend. in basic terms be careful in choosing out friends. friends shouldn't (repeat no longer) harm their chum you recognize. do no longer settle for anymore the advantageous issues she has executed. She is in basic terms using that to forget approximately relating to the super mistake she has executed.
2016-11-27 21:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this friend of yours is a true friend then tell her that he's cheating on her and trying to kiss you. tell her that he kissed you that night and tell her that you tried to stop him. she will get mad at you and her bf but she'll get over it when she sees how a good friend you are.
2007-05-12 05:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by Peachy Keen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to STAY AWAY. slap him, if you must.
don't tell your friend, even though being honest is being a good friend.
she might think you're lying or something to get her to break up with him so you can have him.
all that dramatic crap.
so yeah, just kick him in the balls the next time he tries something like that.
2007-05-12 05:28:26 · answer #9 · answered by Cosette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who is more important? your friend or her boyfriend? you know this boy is a loser because he has no respect for your friend. he willingly kisses her best friend and from this you know that he is a cheater. if he is cheating on her, then he will cheat on you as well.
2007-05-12 05:27:01 · answer #10 · answered by ♣DreamDancer♣ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋