Ok so we had been going out for 8 months but he broke up with me because according to him, i act as if i didn't have a boyfriend. I'm very friendly I hug all my friends and kiss the on the cheek and he hates me for that. I've also lied to him so he won't get mad at me but he found out, that's another reason for which he broke up with me, and last week I went to a dance and danced with a guy (one song only) and I told my boyfriend and he broke up with me that same night. He told me that if I wanna get back with him I have to do something to show him that I'm really sorry and that its worth it giving me another chance. Do u have any ideas?? I need help! I love him soo bad, and I'm very depressed.
2007-05-12 05:15:59 · 13 answers · asked by *Fairy Lover* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not going to be diplomatic with you....
I think you lost a good boyfriend. I admire him for being man enough to end a relationship with a woman that was disrespecting him.
A. Hugging a male friend is OK but I would skip the kissing on the cheek.
B. Getting caught lying to him made things worse. Now he thinks you were probably being a whore to every guy you met.
C. Given A&B, why would you dance with another guy? You were already on thin ice.
D. I haven't heard his side of the story so I suspect you are down playing your role in this affair.
If you want him back.
1. Dress very sexy and visit him.. Bring him a gift.
2. Tell him you want him to take you back and if he does he will be VERY happy with the decision.
3. Tell him you will make him very happy if he takes you back.
4. Cry. Most of us guys are lose our hard feelings for a woman that cries over us.
5. Be a friendly person but STOP taking it too far.
I won't say "good luck" because because your ex might be better off with a less flirtacious girl...
2007-05-12 05:29:11 · answer #1 · answered by Felix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By flirting with other guys, he thinks that you don't like him that much and so if this was regular, one may understand his annoyance. If you need other guys to make you feel wanted this is wrong - this is what your bf is for!
However, the way he is treating you - telling you that you have to do something - is not on. If he wants to be with you, then he wants to be with you - its as simple as that! Don't do anything that certain aarons might suggest - this is only a temporary solution and will not last!
Your relationship with this guy sounds pretty destructive and toxic - consider if this is what you want - do you want to give up flirting with other guys or feeling guilty about it or do you want to be with him????
If you decide that you are willing to give this up for him, then that is what you need to tell him and that should be enough.
Good luck!
2007-05-12 05:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by ami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-05-12 05:19:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 11:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just think to ur self wat do u think he would like dat would say okay i do wanna go back out wit u n tell him u luv him n let him no u do i say u avoid kissing n huggin boys n wen he is around n u r around a lot of boys say i gotta go n like u have a myspace page n ur x does to tell him to look on ur page n have ur page totally wit everything of him on there then he might think dat he can give u another chance
2007-05-12 05:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by angel dust 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in your situation before. It was very hard to get through. I suggest not using notes. But tell him how you feel that always works. If it doesnt email me and i will give you more advice.
2007-05-15 17:13:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok....if HE broke up with you and assumes things about you, and accuses you of not considering him even being around....and you know it isnt true because you love him....is HE really worth getting back? Why would you go back to someone who feels "invisible" with you?
I understand you love him..... but why not see if HE asks for YOU back because being without him could make him see that he NEEDS you back and that he was wrong.....I'd wait.
2007-05-12 05:20:21 · answer #7 · answered by contrabandamanda 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is a control freak and you are better off without him. Count your blessings and move on to a higher level.
2007-05-12 05:19:27 · answer #8 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no wonder he left you - stop kissing and dancing with other guys!!! if you cant - then let him go!! he deserves better than that
2007-05-12 05:18:51 · answer #9 · answered by Immortal 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
learn from your mistakes. Things you do push boys away. Therefore, change yourself or keep pushing boys away.
2007-05-12 05:21:18 · answer #10 · answered by flungcow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋