alright, so there is this girl at my school, and i want to ask her out to go to the movies and see a movie. however im not sure what i am going to say. im wondering if i just ask her if she wants to go to the movies sometime (or this weekend or something), and if she says yes, then do i ask for her # or email or IM or address or something. also, im wondering what to say if she says something like "Are you asking me out on a date." i wouldn't like to consider it as a date, but i guess it sort of is. please respond
thx in advance
2007-05-12 05:11:41 · 17 answers · asked by skxle 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also, if she says yes, then would i ask her what movie she wants to see and what time or do i just say that i will meet her there or something like that
2007-05-12 05:12:59 · update #1
i would just go to her and ask her out if she does say yes then ask for her # to finalize plans and if she asks if its a date say yes you dont have anything to lose and if its a good date then ask for her IM and it would be nice if you picked her up and dropped her home
2007-05-12 05:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by person56 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you chat to this girl a lot then just say, "do you want to go to the movies or something?" and if she says yes, then ask her what she feels like seeing. If she asks if it's a date, tell her casually it could be. Although she may guess it is a date if you don't have her number. Talk about the movie you want to see and then give her your number, and take hers. Tell her you will call her to arrange a time.
2007-05-12 05:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK dude I'm also 13 and i think about this alot im going on a date with my friend and two girls on Friday,and i dont know about this girl but in my experience i think it helps if for the first date the girl is with her friend or something so if u didn't ask her out yet u might want to do that. Also, ask her for her I'M if your shy that's easier cause its not as easy to mess up. and if she askes any of those things like "Are You Asking me on a date" say yes and on the IM talk to her about move, time, date and just talk
HAVE FUN hope it helps
2007-05-14 16:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by crleifler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm seventeen, so I don't know how to advise you from a parents' point of view, but you have to think of them first. It's their little girl your talking about, so if i were you, I'd ask the parents for permission to ask her out. Keep in mind, 13 is young. I wasn't allowed to date until 16 and dates before that were limited to groups, and hey, that's fun too! I may sound old fashioned, but not only will it show them you're responsible but it will also let them know that you care about them, as well as dating their daughter. First impressions can mean everything, so you want yours to be great!
2007-05-12 05:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to her and just ask her. or better yet start carrying on a conversation with her and then ask her if you don't ask then you're never know Right. Pray first and then ask. Be yourself and ask her what are the things she like to do on the weekend and what kinds of movies she interested in
Good Luck!
2007-05-12 05:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First if I had a 13 year old daughter I wouldn't allow her to go on "date" with anyone. I Would allow her to go with a Group to a movie....
So I would advise you to organize a group of your friends to go to a certain movie then ask the girl if she would like to go with the group.
2007-05-12 05:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say I wanna go to the movies with someone and do you wanna go with me and if she says yes then ask for her address and number
2007-05-12 05:20:08 · answer #7 · answered by Lily202 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of a realy awsome new movie that just came out
like for example spiderman 3
so ya start a conversation with her and just ask her if she seen (spiderman 3)
then she goes like no i havent but i wanna c it
then u say sux i cant drive yet........................ i woulda taken u to c it
and then she says Awwwwwwwwwwww tnx thats so sweet
then u say naw i have to find some other way to take you,
then say my brother (or sister, or sombody else who can take u) can take us there, you wanna go?
this is how i ask a girl 2 da movies yestuday
and it worked
2007-05-15 09:09:17 · answer #8 · answered by sslavkaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my book 13 year olds shouldn't date.
2007-05-12 05:16:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Walk up to her, Dont ask her, Say "I am going to take you to the movies on (insert day here)" What is your number so I can call you?....
If you have a Driving age sibling have them drive you , try to avoid the prents driving at all costs.
2007-05-12 05:16:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋