i'm sooooo mad at 'em these days,
just because a little mistake my dad make, my mom got so angry and got hyper on the problem, she's making things worse, and the worst part is, she blamed me!!!! for no reason 'cause i didnt do any mistake when it happens??
and then my dad blamed me too?!?!?!
what's wrong with parents???? why must they blame their children??? does that make them happy??
i mean they want us to be good children but in fact, they're not good examples at all?!?!
i think they're immature 'cause they can't settle this problem by themselves, some ADULTS they are...
so uh.. what should i do to handle this insane situation?
any real suggestion's appreciated, thanks... -_-
2007-05-12 04:56:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Parents aren't immature, when you grow up to be an adult there are things much more stressful in life. Sounds like your parents are taking their anger out on you, not blaming you for things. When you are parents things become more complicated. I suggest you just back off from them and let them cool off and stay out of the way.
2007-05-12 05:01:45 · answer #1 · answered by Betrayed and Insane 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately not every adult has "grown up" meaning they have worked through their issues and take responsibility for them. We look to our parents to be the adults, but they are often times very immature in the way they handle situations and feelings. Parents blame their children when they can't accept their part in the situation. As the child, though it is difficult for you to be the subject of their blame, you have to remind yourself that it is their problem. It's really hard, but you cannot take it personal. You have to be objective enough to know where your problems end and theirs begin. I am sorry you are going through this. I know first hand it is hard to grow up with parents who have not done so themselves. You have to be your own parent and find other surrogate parents (like teachers and friends parents) to guide you. Good luck.
2007-05-12 05:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can anyone give advice? We know nothing of the situation and if it doesn't involve you there is no need for U to comment either and here is why:
If it's marriage business it's none of your business (respectively). So, in light of U *blaming* your parents I'm confused. Only U know if you have something to do with it or not....it happens especially when one gets caught not knowing their place or diliberately stirring up trouble.
2007-05-12 05:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would all depend on the problem that you are being blamed for. I would re-do the question so that while it is ok to vent, like you did here, give a little more information on what happened so you get the best answers possible!!!
2007-05-12 05:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by Austins Mom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats undesirable-you're certainly never obligated to help your dad and mom with their fights!!!!! staggering, she is putting the guilt on you men! that's not your fault by making use of any skill-your mom is to blame for her movements-noy you! do on no account, ever, ever blame your self-shes blaming you because of the fact its much less complicated to blame then you definitely for her to blame herself-no offense-not a solid way for a mom to deal with herself-for this reason babies look for therapists! suitable needs-sorry you aregoing by using this-never ought to you harbor any guilt on your mothers judgements.
2017-01-09 17:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say with what you've said is just keep low...do what your'e supposed to do and listen to your parents....DON"T give them any reason to look at you with blame.....They'll work it out in their own time but right now it sounds like their too angry to think rationally....
2007-05-12 05:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by grdnangel0209 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all parents are immature. Sounds like your family needs to have a "come to Jesus" meeting. Get together and talk about it instead of *********.i.n and moanin' about it. It won't get any better bashing your parents on Yahoo.
2007-05-12 05:02:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are blaming Your Parents for Your Mistake
YOU made the mistake, not your PARENTS...
as far as acting immature, i dont see them here....
2007-05-12 05:03:26 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one who is imature is you becuase when they act liek this it's probably you that is at fault but won't atmit it to yourself. And of course like anyother kid they are very mature already that's why they can't be responsible for their actions.
2007-05-12 05:05:12 · answer #9 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO How old are you 14-15 starting to get hair in places we really have no reason to have hair in? YOU are not as mature as you think you are.
2007-05-12 05:04:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋