I dated this guy for a bit we broke up..anyway cut a long story short when ever i am in the same bar as him he stares at me..i think he thinks i cant notice but evidently i can..when we first met apparently his friend said he had been starring at me for about 45 m b4 he came over.Anyway we had a brief encounter b4 xmas, i went up to himt make amends & he put his finger on my lip & said starring in to my eyes he would love me if he was single then he left me standing there mesmorised...anyway i say him out 1 month ago i ws walking down some stair in a bar & he was walking up..i could see his face light up, then he came up to me and a friend & started to make a conversation...i then started to text him & his girlfriend found the text...Does he like me and feels guilty to dump his girlfriend? If he loved his girf would he have come up to me given the history, is it normal? What could i text him to make him realise i am the 1 for him(word by word pls)without sounding desperate or psycho!!!
2007-05-12 04:08:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honey, this might sound awkward. But i really like you. I realise that you are in a relationship. I cant stop thinking bout you. Do you feel the same way?
then u ahould wait for him to reply. If he says yes..
'If you feel that way, why are you carrying on that relationshp? Do you love her more than me?'
Then wait for him to reply and carry on the messages.
2007-05-12 04:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me give you a hint: if he's in another relationship, HE'S NOT THAT INTO YOU. He may be attracted to you, but that doesn't mean it's love, or that it's right. Maybe he loves her but lusts for you - is that what you're aspiring to? Would you even want a guy that would dump or cheat on his girlfriend as soon as someone cuter walks by? Because he'll do the same thing to you, no matter what he claims. If HE doesn't know you're the "one" for him, there's nothing you can do to convince him - it has to be a conclusion he comes to on his own or not at all. Tell him that he can't have his cake and eat it too... he needs to dump the girlfriend permanently before he even thinks of flirting with you again, or he needs to be faithful to who he's with and stop jerking you around like a dog on a leash.
2016-05-21 02:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, I'm sorry, but its like this........... this guy is only interested in you for a bit on the side. If a man is seriously interested in you he treats you with respect and common courtesy. He stares at you... SO WHAT? You see him socially, and he puts his finger on your mouth to stop you speaking and tells you he isn't single......and walks off. He came up to you because to ignore you would have maybe made you angry and he wouldnt have you as a booty call for next time. He has mad many opportunities to ask you out, and he hasnt, have some pride and forget his number.
2007-05-12 04:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by Lauren J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes people move onto new relationships without dealing with the baggage from the last. Love doesn't dissappear just because the person does. He may be happy with his new GF but a small part of his heart stiff has you in it. YOu need to respect his relationship and backoff. If he wants you he'll leave her and come on his own. Find a single man.
2007-05-12 04:12:49 · answer #4 · answered by ZX3R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My best advise is to stay away. If he is in a relationship and is still flirting with you there is a problem and he is a dog. You sound like a very gentle girl. Don't let men like this take you down. I can tell you be self knowledge and a heel of alot of years with hanging with the guys. he is looking for only one thing. If he can make you tingle like this than he has you right where he wants you. When things get boring or messy with his girl he is gonna try to get what he can with you. so STAY AWAY.
2007-05-12 04:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by passion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i wouldnt go 4 a guy like this..
still if u want a word by word txt msg that ought to be sent, try :-
some things may go wrong sometimes.. but wisdom is when v try to work things out.. and i like wise guys who take the first step! ;)
2007-05-12 04:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about this for a sec....
Why in the world would you give a crap about a guy who has a girlfriend that would flirt with you anyways? To me, this guy is not worth having.
2007-05-12 04:10:55 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda K 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he's in a relationship he's not interested in you. He is interested in the one he calls his girlfriend.
2007-05-12 04:14:52 · answer #8 · answered by Princesa Morenita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say", i have noticed the little stares you give and the conversation we had last x-mas and wanted to tell you how i feel about you........ect.
2007-05-12 04:12:31 · answer #9 · answered by karen h 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
doesnt matter if he is interested or not, he has a girlfriend! leave him alone!
2007-05-12 04:12:58 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋