my boyfriend is a playboy person...i"m afraid he will leave me after doing that..he threat me that he wants to tell my family about that..what should i do?
2007-05-12 00:19:47 · 28 answers · asked by Diana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave him.......u already know that he is a playboy person..then it is obvious,he hav with u and then leave u.................it seems kinda strange how u can love a person who cannot b trusted at all.........this guy might hav with u and then tell ur parents that he did it with u and make things become worse in ur life...........y do u want 2 take such a huge risk..i mean i now u like him..but wat u might do now might make u feel ashamed of urself 4r the rest of ur life
2007-05-12 00:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by Spirits from Hell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this are the type of guys that give all good men a bad rap, if he is doing this to you leave the guy, you will be just another notch on his bed post, if he is a playboy, then all he wants is to play with you, if a guy starts making threats then he is not good for you, be careful with this dude, but just get rid of him.
2007-05-19 23:13:39 · answer #2 · answered by infantry55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend sounds like a total ******! You've already given some really good reasons why you shouldn't have sex with him. You'll just end up regretting it. I think you should seriously reconsider having this dude for a boyfriend. Guys that love you, don't make threats.
2007-05-12 00:23:41 · answer #3 · answered by Kerry 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you are not comfortable in doing this with him then don't you own you body no one else and if your not comfortable with it then don't do it!
Secondly if he leaves you for not wanting to have sex then you are better off without him. If he is shallow enough to give up on a relationship becuase you are not ready to give yourself to him then he is the looser in this situation.
Secondly if you do go ahead and do it with him and he gloats to your family he dosn't hold much respect for you the does he.
Best of all get rid of him find yourself a nice guy that wont' talk and won't put pressure on you.
2007-05-12 00:25:59 · answer #4 · answered by ozi_nut 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Run! do not walk to the nearest exit and git rid of this idiot. he is a control freak and sick as well. Who threatens to tell a girls family about anything just to have sex . Don't be afraid that he will leave you. You leave him.
2007-05-12 00:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by Alfie333 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've always thought that you shouldn't have sex unless you're really in love with the other person. It just doesn't make sense to me and makes me think, no offense, that you're a skank if you go around having sex just because...you know, with no actual "love" there.
2007-05-19 18:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, look him strait in the eye and tell him no. It doesn't matter what he says or does. If you don't want to have sex with him the don't have sex with him. You should dump him right now to be honest. he has no right to try and force you to do something you don't want to do. Its your body, not his. He can't make calls. If that scum bag can't see that then send him packing and get him the hell away from you.
2007-05-12 00:24:38 · answer #7 · answered by Questions after another 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do not make sex with him.You are the treasure till the moment you will make sex with him.Then you'll be the book which he read.Better to find another boyfriend.He is not honest with you if he so much hurry about sex.Believe me!!!!
2007-05-12 00:24:36 · answer #8 · answered by paul 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dump him,don't ever have sex because someone wants you to do, its your choice,and your decision -if you make a wrong choice You have to live with it, l always used to say to my friends- if you think you will feel bad the next morning-Don't do it.
2007-05-20 00:13:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your gut. The fact that you are asking a bunch of strangers is a big red flag. It's hard, it hurts; but walk away.
2007-05-19 22:54:43 · answer #10 · answered by eesha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋