i want to marry her but i dont think my parents will allow once they will know abt her disease and even if they will then they ll remain always tensed coz of it in future,,
what if i dont tell thm?? will they find out tht she has diabetes if we wont tell them.??can we hide this thing??
2007-05-11 19:11:00 · 13 answers · asked by aj 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Diabetes
If you love your gf and want to marry her, then you need to be honest with everyone. Because if something bad happens to her, you do not want them looking at you to blame.
Be honest first and foremost, if you hide this from anybody, who are you really hurting? You are in a sense hurting yourself and your gf, and both of your families.
Diabetes is a condition that is controllable but not yet curable.
I have been living with this since 1995. It does get stressful st times, and the more people that you have that are aware of what is wrong with you, the more support you can and will have.
You need to let them know. If your parents love you and see that you love your gf, and that you are willing to take care of her and do for her what is going to be required, then why would they say no.
It means alot to know that there are people out there that would marry someone knowing that they have this than those that look at it as if something very seriously wrong with us.
This is no more than having high blood pressure. There is no cure for blood pressure either, but it is controllable.
Tell them, let them know that you love your gf, and that you are willing to do what you have to in order to take care of her.
They will love you more for being honest with them than for trying to cover it up.
Trust your instincts and do what I would do if I were in your shoes, tell your parents.
2007-05-15 12:17:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-17 05:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Diabetes is nothing to hide and is nothing to be ashamed of. It will not always be a easy road, but what is. You do all need to be educated. Diabetes isn't going to rub off on no one!! If in the future you do get married and have children, know that it is very ruff on a diabetic to have children, but it is possible but her blood sugar will need to be in very tight control! Anyways as I was saying your children could inherit diabetes, but it is not a given. Diabetes has been known to be genetic. My daughter is 12 and she has some high bs from time to time but nothing that doesn't come back down on its own or that is too high. Just think about things and try to decide on what is best for your future and not your parents!
2007-05-12 20:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant understand why you, or your parents would have a problem with this. Its not like its an STD and she isnt a dirty person for having it. Diabetes, cancer, asthma... its all the same.
Would you abandon her too if she had cancer? Would your family judge and blame her?
If so, you should all be ashamed of yourselves. Give your head a shake and educate not only yourself on diabetes, but your parents as well.
As for hiding it, no. There is no reason to hide the fact that she has diabetes.
I might add too that I feel exceptionally sorry if your parents are going to be her future in-laws. I'd be miserable having to deal with people like that. And why are you so hesitant to tell them? It should be about you and her, not your darn parents. Grow up.
2007-05-11 19:31:08 · answer #5 · answered by Paramedic Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-08-18 13:55:11 · answer #6 · answered by Sal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to hide her condition? Diabetes is not contagious. You must educate your parents they are ignorant as to what is important. You love her. Marry her. Learn about diabetes and how to treat it. Go to www.diabetes.org for more information.
2007-05-11 19:17:52 · answer #7 · answered by erin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aj, i do hope you research more on what diabetes mellitus type I is...
But just to tighten your bolts a little, DM type I is nothing like AIDS or STDs that you get from premarital and multi-partner sex... not even as contagious as infectious mononucleosis that you get from kissing. DM I is not infectious, so why do you have to hide it?
Don't be shallow.
2007-05-11 19:22:10 · answer #8 · answered by aqua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can we hide this thing?? That made me laugh and sad all at once. Tell your parents and if they can't see your happiness in love start hanging out with your in-laws
2007-05-12 04:07:48 · answer #9 · answered by seVen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who's getting married? you and your gf or your parents and your gf? I do understand that you don't wanna marry without your parents total conscent. If you love her, I think this is the perfect time to show so. Please support her, give her love and comprehension. dom't make her feel she's "wrong" or needs to be fixed or has no value now that she was diagnosed.
i think your gf is the one who has the right to decide who should know or shouldn't know that she has diabetes.
think it over before doing something you may regret later on.
2007-05-11 19:21:56 · answer #10 · answered by ilovefrappes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋