guys , have u ever experience this - u went out with a gal , then break up with her for whatever the reason , then u start to realise that u actually still love her but both of u is no longer in speaking term .
question - will u bite the bullet & start to contact her again so to get ur 2nd chance ?? or will u just give it all up eventhough u love her ??
2007-05-10 20:39:04 · 16 answers · asked by paranoiac 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
FIGHT 4 HER!!!
2007-05-10 20:41:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships never end, they only break ( what matters is the duration of the recess)
If you once go out with a girl, there is high possibility of making up. I'll fight to shorten the break.
However long breaks in relationships spices up reunions.
2007-05-10 20:58:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually did this in high school. I was dating a girl. We had a serious relationship. We had a falling out. Hated each other. I regretted it. Started making eye contact, smiling, getting closer, and finally we started speaking again, then dating again, going steady, getting more serious, talking marriage and kids and white-picket fences, then it didn't work out and we went our separate ways.
2007-05-10 20:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by crispy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have been in love with the same woman for seven years now. But if she turned up at my doorstep, I would turn her down because I know she would hurt me.
Love can only work if both people feel the same way about each other.
2007-05-10 20:43:43 · answer #4 · answered by Zombie Jesus 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one of you has to have the courage to send the inital text - doesn't need to be a gushy 'i love u, want u, need u xxxx', just a simple - 'hiya, not heard from you in a while, how you getting on? x'
personally i think it should be the guy that sends out that initial contact (99% of the time)
if she wants to get back then she'll respond, but take it slow, if not then admit its gone and move on....
good luck!
2007-05-10 21:06:04 · answer #5 · answered by Derek J Kered 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just go up to her, tell her you are sorry and ask if you can start over again! I have done it before and look where i am now! Married and have 3 kids!
2007-05-10 20:45:21 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah-Lynne G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would bite the bullet and call her,
email her,
write to her,
send flowers
and whatever else i can to make her realise what a fool i had been 4 leaving!
2007-05-10 20:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am guessing that you are american, castigating language in this way. I agree with a previous answer - put the question into english.
2007-05-14 18:49:34 · answer #8 · answered by bluefish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather move on, because there's prob. someone special out there for me.. Because it didn't work out the first time and usually the second time is not going to work either.. but life who knows? rite...
2007-05-10 20:45:19 · answer #9 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i did once. now she.s married with 4 children. i met her for a cuppa coffee. the other day. she said her life was hell. as a guy i thought that was a near miss. but i did fill sorry for her.
2007-05-10 20:45:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but she nevver loved me we still talk i know theres no chance for us cause shes seeing someone else and theres a thing she has with long distance relationships so its basically over.
2007-05-10 22:19:27 · answer #11 · answered by firefox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋