I'm sorry for that incomplete question.I had asked a previous qoustion "should I dump him" so I was following up with ,should I sleeo in the same room with him until i decide what to do.I mean I would make sure he has hot food when he comes from work,clean clothes clean house, assist financially .I've always been soft natured and I don;t know how to, not do anything for him while i'm still in the house
2007-05-10 20:27:37 · 8 answers · asked by levee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you want it to work out? Or have you already made up your mind. If you want it to work out you need to talk to him and let him know what your issues are. Don't just pretend everything is okay when it isn't. When you say sleep in the same room I assume you mean in the same bed and whatever may come with that. Not good if you are having second thoughts. You do this and he will never even know something was wrong.
2007-05-10 20:37:45 · answer #1 · answered by David M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, not at all...leave means leave...get out of there. You're just enabling him to keep on abusing you.
Why do supposedly smart women fall for such losers? And then want to cook and clean and give financial aid...etc. even after being abused? If you try to sleep in the same room after telling him you're going to break up, he's going to get a LOT more abusive. If you say you're going...then get out!
Do you not have anywhere to go? Is it his house? Do you have any friends? or relatives? If you don't have something right now, then wait and don't give him warning, make a plan, save up something, get an apartment or make plans to go to a different city...then just leave! After you're safe and out of there, then look to get child support at least from him. As he's an abuser though, I'd probably recommend you cut all ties.
2007-05-11 03:37:59 · answer #2 · answered by VodkaTonic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awkward situation. Find a friend to stay with. You need to make a CLEAN BREAK and spend some time apart at least for a while. If it is really over, then don't prolong it or tempt either of you to think otherwise.
2007-05-11 03:37:31 · answer #3 · answered by Rav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a break away from him in order to make up your mind. Why not go to a friend's house or your parent's house for a few days just to clear your head.
2007-05-11 03:36:20 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should keep things normal for now because if you stop sleeping in the same room for no reason all of a sudden i think, and this is only a hunch now, i think he might notice something is wrong, lol
Gd luck, xx
2007-05-11 03:37:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you decide to not sleep in the same room, the relationship's over.
2007-05-11 03:32:42 · answer #6 · answered by Dear Crabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea keep things normal till u decide what too do
2007-05-11 03:34:51 · answer #7 · answered by poundpuppy61 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on your personal preference.
2007-05-11 03:30:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anita Mann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋