im 24 and she is 31. weve known each other for almost 5 years. she is bipolar, takes meds, and graduated very high in her class.....i have some OCD and of course think of myself as being smarter than everyone on planet earth.
weve both dissapointed each other
she is going through a rough patch in her life
.....she is hardly talking to me and i ASSUME playing games with me and i dont understand why. she is blaming everything on herself and i dont understand why. it sucks everything out of me because i dont know what to say. i dont know what to do.
do you have any idea why she would behave like this and what i can do to help her? ....thank you
2007-05-10 20:21:57 · 5 answers · asked by sean_mchugh6 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You already answered yourself:you disappointed each other.She might be tired of you,or in a depression period,or dating someone else.Anything you do,just dont lie to yourself.The truth hurts,but as soon as you stop being hurt,the woun heals better,with less scar...
2007-05-10 20:29:27 · answer #1 · answered by naseem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a symptom of her illness or she could just be experiencing "life issues" or a combination of both. I understand your wanting to help her but when it starts "sucking everything out of you" that is when you have to take a step back and let things happen as they may. It sounds as though you are doing and have tried everything to help her but you cannot help someone if they don't want the help at the moment. Perhaps give it some time and see where things go. Maybe she needs some time and that will give you some time to get back a perspective of yourself that may have been lost since having to concentrate on helping her so much (which is not a bad thing). I WISH YOU THE BEST~
2007-05-10 20:54:35 · answer #2 · answered by Hopeful 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love her then you would help her through whatever she is going through. perhaps she needs to see a doctor, maybe the medication is not working or there is something else wrong with her.
2007-05-10 20:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Charmed One♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you are becoming depressed as well as giving her all the attention she craves. When you get yourself organized again she will talk to you again.
2007-05-10 20:45:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its her mental disease, you just have to let it go.
2007-05-10 20:24:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋