Its been 6 months and I still think about it. Even after being with a 6 girls after her. Just curious why and if I'll ever feel normal again
2007-05-10 19:58:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
3 1/2 years. i have it takes one half the time of the duration of your relationship to get over it
2007-05-10 20:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by jezbnme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could take a couple of years, but sleeping with all these women isn't going to speed up the process. 6 women are alot in only 6 months. After 6 months it's totally normal to still be thinking about it. Good luck.
2007-05-10 20:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by diyta 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
me heart aches for you.. it is gonna be a very long time, I'm afraid, and the WORST thing you can do is 'rebound'.. stay away from other realtionships until you are done grieving, cuz you're not doing the other girls any justice when your mind is still in a grieving state.. and CRY... all the time.. just cry and cry, like you want to! I cried every day for an entire year, but I made the choice to boot him cuz he was havin an affair.. with drugs...it's been 7 years now, after a 5 yr relationship, and I don't hurt, but I would fall in love with him again, so I avoid it like da bird flu! u needa hug from a lunatic? huuuugggg! lil betta now? hehe
Joey.. I don't know how old you are, but that is the most immature way to deal with loss... which is NOT DEALING WITH IT!
2007-05-10 20:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by ravin_lunatic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sure, being in a relationship is great but you shouldn't be worrying about that kind of stuff at such a young age. Your studies are farr more important. Boys are young and usually relationships don't really have a big affect to them. Don't expect too much with him. You're only in 7th grade wait until 9th grade at the least but really senior year would be best. :]
2016-04-01 06:15:48 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I've always heard is that you take the amount of time you are with someone and divide it in half.. That is how long it should take to get over them. so 7 divided by 2 equals 3 and a half years.
2007-05-10 20:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by Cassie B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
delete her from your life, no pictures no nothin dont check her myspace. Out of sight out of mind. And just do your best to erase her from your memory, you wont be completely happy till you find a chic that is of equal or better quality. So get out their and take the first thing that comes along, and from their just keep upgrading. It will work i know, it gets better. Someday youll forget about it but ive been done with my relationship for two years and i still think about it. You think alot less when your with another person that kinda takes her place and may end up being better.
2007-05-10 20:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by Joey B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im not gonna lie, it will take a long time,and its normal that u still think about her after 6 months.....only time will heal,you just need to be patient and you'll see everything will turn out great in the end for you, just like it turned out great for me.
2007-05-10 20:04:45 · answer #7 · answered by lauren 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's because you haven't really found another emotional bond. 6 girls huh? For sex I would assume.
Maybe you should try just making friends with girls. That way there's kind of a filling in of that emotional void.
When I broke up with my last boyfriend, I just hung out with my guy friends. Nothing romantic, nothing sexual, just someone of the opposite sex to be around.
Maybe you should try it.
2007-05-10 20:02:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I heard one year for every four spent in the relationship. i was marreid for 8 and i have one year down and 1 to go . goo luck byt the way sleeping w/ all thos egirls isnt going to help u move on n.
2007-05-10 20:16:50 · answer #9 · answered by lady26 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its probably going to take awhile, 7 years is a LOOOOONG time to be with someone!!
but soon enough you will feel better and eventually move on, cheer up! go out with ur friends and just have fun!!
it'll get better
=)
2007-05-10 20:04:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋