ladies, how do you know "its a lust relationship'?

Question

how do you know that, and what makes you think it's only lust and not love

Answer 1

Well...if the person just wants to see me, and is not interested in my life, my family, my friends and just wants to play around, then I tend to think that it is lust.

Answer 2

A lust relationship is one that is based solely on sexual feelings. If you find yourself only thinking of the other when you want sex or you can't wait to have sex or some kind of physical contact than you're lusting. If you never think of the other persons personality or good qualities. If you only want to go out to dinner because you hope to get some later than you're in a lust relationship. And most of all if the only concern that you would have if you were dumped is that you wouldn't be getting any for a while than you're definitely in a lust relationship. It's all about the physical and very little about the actual person

Answer 3

First when you do not take her out, and would like to either stay with her at her place of go to yours. Normally "lust" lacks affection and if you do not show affection she will soon get the hint that you are just "horny" and love your sex.

Ladies there are men out there that will show you affection without sex on their mind. Most ladies take a show of affection as a way to get you into bed. I had that problem with my first wife. She was afraid of affection, and I think sex also. I thrive on affection, I thrive on the chemistry that I feel toward my lover, and i can sense the affection, and chemisrty between us. Chenistry is either there or it is not. You cannot make it happen.

One point of intrest that got away with me concerned "Anna Nicole Smith". Her diary states that "she hated sex". WHY?
Maybe some of your ladies know. One of my "querks" is the fact I love to be seen with beautiful women. I swore that I would never date anyone younger than my daughter; she is (40) . I would have loved to have been seen with Anna, I have been seen with beautiful flight attendants on lay-overs as I worked with a major airline. Was sex involved. No. Just a good feeling. Was sex ever involved over the years? ...

Anna i wo

Answer 4

When you feel no emotional connection, no caring, no commitment. When the only thing that attracts you to another person is only physical. When their is no love, no connection, there is no relationship, and here comes "lust."

Answer 5

I don't know and I don't care, because if there is no lust involved the relationship isn't going anywhere.

Answer 6

Love can be with lust,however,if you lust more than talk its not love.

Answer 7

if the guy makes me want to rip his clothes off, it's lust. now if he makes me think that maybe someday i want to have his children, that's love. there is a huge difference.

Answer 8

When it's love, you:
talk to each other about everyday things and --at least sometimes-- your feelings;
enjoy being with each other doing things that don't involve making out and sex;
enjoy being a couple even when you are among your friends;
care as much about her pleasure as you do your own.

Answer 9

Easy...
Where are your hands?
If they are holding ours, we feel there might be some emotion.
If they're trying to find their way into some part of our clothing, we know you are just out for the five minute feel good time.

Answer 10

because you only want to sleep with the person.... it's not a real relationship and you don't have feelings for them. basically, you're on;y in it for yourself