I'm always there at his concerts, his band's number one fan, there to help him whenever I can and everything. I laugh at his jokes and make him feel good. But I don't overcrowd him, I don't follow him around or anything. But he dosen't care that I do these things. He's got a girlfriend that never does them, she just wants to get popular with him. And he likes some girl from my class that is just there to laugh and have a good time, but she really dosen't care for him either. We used to be super good friends, and now.. out of the blue, since when he started going out with that other girl, he started sorta ignoring me by never talking to me except when really needed, avoids my gaze a LOT and he just.. acts as if he dosen't appreciate my always being there for him when he needs it. But I know he does. What I don't understand is WHY he started avoiding me this way since his GF, we were friends! and why he acts like this, what is ur opinion plz?
Thanks, oxox
Ive
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He talks to me when he needs to know if this is mine or who's or when's the next class and such, when the teachers ask him and he has to know. He's a VERY smart boy, and he's a good person. That's why I don't understand his reaction. Also about his avoiding my gaze.. why only mine?! does he have something special against me or something?.
2007-05-10 14:34:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes simply ignoring u and just because u are so crazy about him he wants u to go running towards him everytime...thats the reason hes acting as if he never knew u...this attitude of boys makes girls go more for that particular guy..so girl,wht u should do is dont pay any heed to this guy as hes not worth of all ur care and loveu're giving him...trust me on that front...u are better off without him..no need to be friends with him either u'll get better options ahead in life...so move on..!!
2007-05-10 14:41:12 · answer #1 · answered by amrita k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My opinion is that you're overreacting. Stand in his shoes for a sec., check out his p.o.v. See what he's seeing.
If you still think you're underappreciated, then I've got words for you: Do some stuff for yourself! You deserve a nice soak in a hot tub with bubbles and chocolates for all that work you do for that special guy. If he's not appreciating it the way he should, then he shouldn't get the special attention you pour on him. Take some time off your guy, and I say this because although you say you don't overcrowd him, you might overcrowd yourself with him in your mind. You think about him a lot, don't you.
And about avoiding your gaze... honey, girls can be intimidating. I should know. ; ) Sometimes guys can't handle the intensity of your gaze, no matter how you intend to be looking at them. Possibly, since you've got this guy stuck to your mind, you've been giving him more of an eyefull than he can bear to be the object of. Again, my advice to you is to take a few days off and love yourself.
2007-05-10 14:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by DJ N 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he cares about you a lot, Ive.
Right now he has another g/f who he's attracted to, and he's being careful to not give you too much attention. This is because he doesn't want to upset his g/f. Continue to be his friend; the one who is always there. Don't step beyond the friendship line because he will never forgive you if you cause him, intentionally or unintentionally, to breakup with his g/f.
He does appreciate your friendship. Let that be your way of staying close. If someday he opens his eyes and realizes the possibilities with you, then it will happen. And if it does, pray that it is real.
2007-05-10 14:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by Flame 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi he is a friend and all you do for him will not make him care more more than what he does all ready you can not make any one love you and if it is not from the heart then stay friend I rather have friend lots of them then only one person to love friends will always be there and at your age love comes and goes hope this help ya girl better keep him as a friend and enjoy your life he will not be with her long
2007-05-10 15:56:39 · answer #4 · answered by marsh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always at his concerts? Thats overcrowding him. He is not interested in you if he doesnt show appreciation. He may be ignoring you so you will go away. Like you said, he has a girlfriend so, back off.
2007-05-10 14:38:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 06:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you as a friend ,but has NO romantic intrest in you whatsoever.He knows you have romantic feelings for him this is why he avoids your gaze because you are chasing him and it makes him feel bad because he doesnt want to hurt you.
2007-05-10 14:39:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No but its complicated. He might be going through something or he migth be changing. When things like this happen theres several things you can do.
Talk to him
leave things as they are
or what i did when a friend blew me off say **** em and forget about it.
2007-05-10 14:39:51 · answer #8 · answered by The Dark One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it defiantly sounds like hes trying to detach himself from u. perhaps he feels u act too much like a girlfriend and not like a friend. maybe he is afraid his girlfriend will be jealous..im not sure. i wud suggest u just try to be a friend for now, and dont over do it weth being there for him, dunt do anything that will make u feel bad later for him not showing appreciation to u ♥ i hope it works out, gud luck!!
2007-05-10 14:52:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe his gf haf a problem with u guys friendship if he is taking what you are giving him fro advantage he isnta very good friend just ignore him for a while and maybe he might apologize if you tell him about it if he talks to you from you ignoring him tell him but dont let him be like that to you
2007-05-10 14:40:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋