I meet this really awesome guy and we've been hangin out now for about three months or so. We hit it off really well on our first date and ended up sleeping together. Every time we hang out we have a blast and he treat me so well, but he keeps insisting we are just friends. But the way he acts and the things he does say otherwise and I think I'm falling for him... hard.
I don't know what to do. I have a feeling he doesn't want to get attatched because he's moving in a month or so and isn't a big fan of distance even though it's only a two hour drive. Help?!?
2007-05-10 14:09:51 · 9 answers · asked by calisweetieus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try to learn how to spell and use proper grammer....this story is a mess....
2007-05-10 14:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by calculusgirl1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears to me that since he has already got you in the sac he doesn't really care about developing any lasting relationship. He just wants to be friends he doesn't want to tie himself down to one women just yet. I think you should just be receptive to what he is telling you and find a guy that wants you for you and don't rush into the sac so fast. He is moving and well he may just want to keep his prospects open to women that live where he is moving too.
He is telling you he doesn't want a GF so get over him!. If by chance he moves away and he misses you that may be a sign that he does have true feelings for you as a friend and maybe more. Really though do not count on it happening.
God Bless and keep searching for Mr. Right instead of Mr. Right Now.
2007-05-10 14:19:05 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have lots of confusion and cannot make q quick decision on what you want or what you are willing to do or change. but guarantee if was certain that you love this person there is no more confusing issues like that because the answers are already made when you decided to or naturally fell for this person. it took time to make it happen and that was the hardest part everything is a piece of cake after that since love dosent judge or hurt or blame or forsaken.
2007-05-10 14:15:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many a romance falters on the matter of distance. He may truly care for you, but he's keeping you at a certain distance because he's pretty sure it's coming to an end. Prepare yourself - this doesn't look like it's going to last.
2007-05-10 14:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want a friendship and or pen pal, he is for you. if your serious and he appears not to be that way, i would look for someone that won't be moving anytime soon.
he will always find another friend and he is letting you know that. if you want to be the side event, he is the man otherwise cut him loose and find someone who will be around.
2007-05-10 14:17:21 · answer #5 · answered by sandras77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with him..... 2 here ever he is going... if he doesnt mind... but if he does then find a new man its a lot of fish in the sea
2007-05-10 14:14:34 · answer #6 · answered by lil chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont get attached.
find another guy before he hurts you.
2007-05-10 14:13:55 · answer #7 · answered by TK #11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're losing it
2007-05-10 14:11:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are losing it
2007-05-10 14:13:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋