he says he made a mistake and wants me back but he cheated on me with my friend, one of my friends says i should take him back but some other dont? i love him but i cant ever forgive him? what should i do?
2007-05-10 13:42:25 · 13 answers · asked by Bee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Will you ever trust him again?
Besides communication, TRUST is absolutely the foundation of any relationship. Think about it and make the right choice for yourself!
2007-05-10 13:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by Angelbaby7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone makes mistakes, and physical cheating is normal becuase it is natural as a human to be physically attracted to other people.....this doesnt mean its ok to cheat, but it does mean that your ex might never do it again. if you have feelings for him still, i say you should give him another chance, but make it clear that if it happens again, there will be NO MORE SECOND CHANCES.
hope it works out and good luck!
remember, in the end, do what feels right to YOU.
2007-05-10 13:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by Sam S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater....in the long run u need to do what ur heart is telling u to do but what if u go back and he does it again.....are u going to forgive him? he's goin to know its ok to cheat cuz ur goin to always take him back! think things over before u make any decision
2007-05-10 13:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by greenmm0500 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't forgive him, forget it.
Because whether you realize it or not, because you can't forgive you're going to punish him every day for what he did. Admittedly he does deserve some for being a moron.
But not a life sentence, which is what he'd probably be signing up for.
2007-05-10 13:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by Atavacron 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he cheated on you, especially with your "friend" he doesn't really love you. You desreve somebody who really does love you through hard times and good times. Also, dump the "friend". That's no friend who goes behind your back with your boyfriend. They deserve each other.
2007-05-10 13:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by bigDcowgirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-19 22:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can't trust and forgive, what kind of realtionship would that be?
I think you already know that it would be a mistake to take him back.
2007-05-10 13:45:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you take him back when you just said that you can't forgive him? a relationship is based on trust. obviously if you can't forgive him, you can't trust him.
maybe if you said that you can't forget, it would be ok. but if you can't forgive......... never mind.
2007-05-10 13:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you dare! If you let him get away with this, he'll think he can just go and do it again. Don't give in. It's for the best.
2007-05-10 13:46:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No No NO! Do not go back. You deserve someone who will be loyal to you.
2007-05-10 13:45:31 · answer #10 · answered by Renee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋