i push away a lot of nice girls.
2007-05-10 13:05:05 · 17 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i maybe can't be your heroin, but i'll always by ur side :)
2007-05-10 15:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by moonrider 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im going to not sugar coat this. You can either let the past haunt you and stuff up any chance of happyness you will have in the present, or you can morn the passing of the girlfriend for a specified period of time, then after that get over it and get on with life.
I think it would be an insult to the girlfriend if you walked around all broken hearted, i doubt she would want that for you.
2007-05-10 13:09:13 · answer #2 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way. It just takes time and healing. It's all natural and you should take some time of to grief and get over everything. Remember the good times and for her, make an effort to keep going on with your life. Talk to people including girls, even if its just for friendship sake. Good Luck.
2007-05-10 13:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept the fact that people dies! Everybody... Let bygone be bygone. Be busy. It helps ur subconcious mind to slowly forget about the loss. And why girls r so important at this time? They dont. U can survive without one, at least 4 the time being. U'll know when the time comes. Just take it easy, one step at a time... Good luck!
2007-05-10 13:14:25 · answer #4 · answered by ni2penang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please except my deepest condolences I am so very sorry for your loss I'm sure this is a difficult situation I'm not sure how long it's been scenes her passing but it will take time and no one can tell you that it's time to move on I don't know how long it will take to mend your broken heart and I am so very sorry that you are hurting I really wish that there was a good answer to your question but grieving is different for everyone and it time you will find peace.....witch I hope that you do I'm sure she wouldn't want you be lonely. I hope for you peace love and happiness in all the days to come. bless you.
2007-05-10 13:21:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend recently lost her fiance and at times she just breaks down and cries but she is slowly healing. Unfortunatley if you did love her time can only heal it. It is probably to soon for you to think a bout dating if this is recent though. Take time and grieve.
2007-05-10 13:09:25 · answer #6 · answered by ashley 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry...really...
Just let time do its healing.
It's not just words...I know exactly where you are right now.
When the right girl comes she'll find a way to open up your heart again and find her way in.
You'll be surprised when it happens cause it'll come naturally.
Just don't push yourself and be patient and strong!
Best of luck!
2007-05-10 13:14:35 · answer #7 · answered by Jen C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that something that take's alot of time your girlfriend would want you to be happy and is probablly looking down on you remember how she made you feel and thank about being happy with her my mom died last year and sometimes i need to break down and cry it will take time and it's very normal to be hurting you don't need to get over her i suggest trying to just do whatever make's you happy at the moment i'm very sorry abou your loss
2007-05-10 13:14:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is gonna take time for you to heal. You will find the right girl when the time is right. It could be today or it could be a few years. I am so sorry for your loss.
2007-05-10 13:09:53 · answer #9 · answered by Shirley D 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to hear that you should stay away from girls for a bout a year then make friends then get deeper dont rush your self and dont let ur friends feel sorry for you
hope i helped
2007-05-10 13:09:28 · answer #10 · answered by baby chik 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there, believe me it stinks. You will know when you are ready to move on, trust me. I don't know how long it has been since your girlfriends death, or for how long you'd been together--don't rush to get back in the dating game. Respect what the two of you had, give yourself time to mourn. I know it sounds trite, but you will know when you're ready. Peace.
2007-05-10 13:08:45 · answer #11 · answered by Pazyluz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋