need to find my own way in life?

Question

i have mental problems with many things. the main problem is being honest with my self. i am 35 and dont talk to anyone i would just like to know if there is people out there like me. please dont think i am sicco, im not. well i hope not lol

thanks everyone i really needed that lift what you are saying is so true i have had a c p n for the last 10 years and i carnt be honest with him. but i would just like to say to violet death i think her name was.i have a life so why dont you get one think you r the sicco one. THANKS EVERYONE IT MEANS THE WORLD TO ME JUST NEED TO TALK I THINK. THANKS AGAIN XXX.from some one who does need a friendly voice thax

Answer 1

YEP we are out here, trust no-one. if it needs sorting do it yourself. Dont take medicines they only numb your body while your mind is working overtime. Im honest with myself, in fact with everyone, maybe too honest, if I'm honest (he heee)...there's no need for facades or porkies. If people cant accept who you are then its they that have the problem. and yeh, if you are insecure some people are sad enough to think that something is seriously wrong with YOU..its not...you just need good close friends who you can trust to give honest answers and a listening ear. First thing to do is get plenty of rest and food. Take a bath and then sit and make a huge list of all the good bits and bad bits. Believe me, it takes a weight off your shoulders doing something so simple. Then you always have a list, or a goal...and as you conquer each one your confidence will grow. Good luck. There are folk on here that will help you along the way too, feel free to seek us out. God bless.

Answer 2

what you need to do is take a look at your life. do you find yourself saying no more than yes? the last time you said no to somebody what was the events that happened because you said no? what could have been the events if you had said yes? in everybodys life everything happens for a reason and you cant control that,nobody can but if you try to change your outlook on life and try to talk to people you will find that its not all bad! just please try to say yes the next time someone asks you out for a coffee or to meet up somewhere because if you dont you will never know what could have happened if you did!

Answer 3

I am exactly like that. I don't talk to people (except ones i know and close friends) at school or anyone else for that matter. Some people think I don't like them and stuff like that. As far as advice every once and a while I force myself to speak, although then people usually ignore me so I don't know. But your not alone!

Answer 4

Why not have a talk with your doctor. You could also try joining something. What about a church? You will make friends and find people willing to help you and care for you. Try to find a mainstream one (Baptist, Anglican, RC, etc) that has a good age mix, you'll be amazed.

Answer 5

You are not sicco, because if you are, a lot of people would be. I am the same way.

Answer 6

At least you know what is the matter. The thing to do is to make someone aware of what you feel or think, and then work it out. A professional should be able to help you sort out your problems.

Answer 7

Mental health problems hey. Not nice are they hun. i know how difficult it can be. there is help out there if you look for it. hope you get better xx

Answer 8

no you are not sico and no i do not have this issue but as far as im concerned you will be fine take a chance u will never know if you dont chance it

Answer 9

Umm... if you need to find your own way in life why are you asking other people?

Other than that, of course there are other people out there like you!

Answer 10

we all love you