okay i was younger about 10 (i was developed cuz i have had an hour glass figure my whole life),and my brothers friend started touching me and everything...i didnt like it and i didnt want it....so i was like what are you doing? and he was like nothing just playing with you....i was like stop and he did....than the next day he did the same thing to me....like he took his down to his knees and kissed me and everything...and he took his penis out and almost put it into me...and my brother called for me and like he quickly got dressed and was like dont tell anybody....and i didnt but my brother was like what were you doing....i got so scared that i lied and said nothing looking for something...and he believed me....so a week later i told my brother what really happened...and my brother saw the kid at a barber shop and broke out into a fight...my brother broke the kids nose and everything..the cops had to break it up....is tha tenough suffering for the kid? my bro is the only 1 who knows.
2007-05-10 10:04:14 · 19 answers · asked by xom3ganxo1369 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would definitly call that being molested, its something you didnt want and he did it anyway. he is a sick person and deserves more than what your brother did to him. he should of had respect for one, knowing you are his friends little sister and secondly, he should know better than to take advantage of someone else for his pleasures. it sounds like you have a very good brother....some people are just sick in the head,and its sad when an older guy has to molest a young girl instead of finding someone his age that hes dating or whatever to do things like that with.
2007-05-10 10:11:56 · answer #1 · answered by luvleebabygurl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention the age of your brother's "friend." It doesn't really matter I suppose. I would say yes, that was inappropriate contact. I would guess he has since done it again to some other unsuspecting girl. You don't have to keep it a secret if you don't want to, you did nothing wrong. Try talking with your parents? or a school counselor? It is obviously still bothering you...
2007-05-10 10:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It pretty much sounds like that kid was trying to rape you... how old was he? He should be charged... psh, broken nose? He could've done so much more damage to YOU if your brother hadn't called you. Tell your parents, even if they freak. They'll know what to do. How old are you now? Do you still know the kid? If it's been years and the kid has moved, it's sort of a hopeless case because you've stalled but you should do it anyway.
2007-05-10 10:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is! But you already knew that, didn't you? We each have a protective instinct about such situations; when your instinct says you've been sexually molested/abused, you have been.
Report this to the police. You are very likely not the only young girl this boy has molested, but you may be the only one who reports this and thus stops him from ever molesting anyone again.
Summon whatever courage you need to report him to the police. You can do this.
2007-05-10 10:12:54 · answer #4 · answered by MomBear 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear, you should of went to your mom when this happened. OR any adult for that matter. If it hasnt been too long ago go to them now with the information. You might not be the only girl out there that he has done this to. But be the brave one and stand up so no other girl has to go through it!
2007-05-10 10:09:18 · answer #5 · answered by Challenged 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes sweetie, you were molested. The punk needs to be charged with attempted rape. Tell your parents and get the cops involved. You might save someone else from going through what you went through.
2007-05-10 10:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You don't know how extremely lucky you are that this kid did not have forced sex with you. And, yes, you were molested. I don't know how old you are now, but if this is continuing you need to tell your parents and get it stopped.
2007-05-10 10:08:49 · answer #7 · answered by kny390 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
it is what the victim feels not what the violator had intended..
-the fact that you are asking this proves to me that you know that you were inapporiplty treated.. talk to your brother, mother, father, therapist, anyone to help you.. you can talk to the cops even ... so that they can check out this guy.. save a little girll...because what if that boy goes farther next time?
-hope that i helped
2007-05-10 10:19:30 · answer #8 · answered by I ♥ Brennen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you were violated!! tell your parents and press charges. The kid needs help and next time he might do something to someone else that isn't fortunate enough to be able to get away.
2007-05-10 10:08:54 · answer #9 · answered by Life*goes*on 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you were molested. I think you should have said something then. Now it may be too late. Depending on how much time has passed.
2007-05-10 10:10:29 · answer #10 · answered by Latina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋