My boyfriend of 6 years just moved away from town to a place some 300 km away les than a month ago.I met him last on the 3rd of this month and he was all romantic and loving,he was literally showing off his ardent love towards me in front of the whole town.I called him after two days at night and instead of him picking up the phone a girl picked up the phone and said that she was his girlfriend and they were living in together.I felt very humiliated and haven't called him up since then.But the situation seems so improbable,but if it was some joke that he was pulling on me then why didnt he call me up after that?Can anyone please tell me what's all this about and should I do now?
2007-05-10
09:03:00
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The point is should I call him up and confront him or should I just let it be and move on.My additional problem is I too am moving to the same city as him by next month for professional requirements and if he stalks me there it would be a huge problem for me.what do I do?
2007-05-10
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Oh girl, sorry but it sounds like he's been cheating, dump his sorry a** and find someone who deserves you!!
Good Luck!!
2007-05-10 09:06:45
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answered by Anonymous
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i've got self assurance that adult males are very strait forward with how they experience. they don't likely play video games, or upload the confusion into the placement. With that being pronounced, If the guy IS coming up better emotions for the guy, in spite of the very incontrovertible fact that he won't say, he extremely does not sidestep you. Why might he sidestep you if he has emotions for you??! isn't smart. he will want to communicate to you, see you, merely hear your voice.. All of those issues ya know? so some distance as a guy accusing a girl of issues while she has been there for him. It sounds like a lot of immaturity to me, and existence is a lot too short for all that mess! He desires to declare precisely the place he stands, and how he feels in the direction of the guy, via fact even with what all people says a lot of females are strait forward themselves, and in basic terms call for the comparable in return. ANY guy who in my opinion supplies me the dismiss.. they are long previous! Adios! that's not nicely worth sitting there biting your fingernails attempting to determine what the intentions are. in the event that they don't care then they don't care, and no lady will in no way, ever exchange that. wish I helped! :)
2016-10-15 07:34:29
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answered by ? 4
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He just forgot that you had feelings, and decided that telling you would ruin the sex you two have together.
You are far to special a person to put up with this. Don't let him talk you into believing that she was just a friend who stopped by. I don't think she would be lying to you about the situation. Especially since he hasn't bothered to call you back and explain anything to you. Take yourself a deep breathe and just move on. I know it's hard to do, but you don't need someone who's disrespectful to you in this way holding you back.
Sorry, and good luck.
2007-05-10 09:11:58
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answered by Anonymous
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way don't u tell that girl that u r his girlfriend for six years? try to call him again. and tell him what do u think about him. try to talk what happen when u called. or just go where he moved and give him a surprise. u will find out whats going on. but if u know whats going on move back from him. I know its hard, but u have to do something about this. good luck with everything whatever u do.
2007-05-10 09:45:00
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answered by sakshi s 2
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There is nothing you can do, he played you like you let him do. You can't even dump him, since he has already done that to you.
Clearly he was doing her while doing you, now he has decided between the two of you. Move on and don't look back. Anything else is a waste of time and effort.
2007-05-10 09:07:25
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answered by Just a friend. 6
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Hmmm......madonna....your boyfriend seems to be casanova....no he not fooling around the situation seems genuine.... even if later he gives the reason that he was joking...simply because what was the girl doing there in the first place with him.......secondly you cannot do anything even if you wanted to....because he is your boyfriend not your husband....6 years .!......that's a lot of time to get bored with each other if you are not married....
2007-05-10 09:14:32
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answered by jammy 4
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Chances are good it is over.
No, it was not a joke, it is over and the person is gutless, if he calls stay calm and tell him what happened check your phone record to make sure you did not reach the wrong Telephone number, if your BF's name is a common name then this is a remote but very good possibility.
Check.
2007-05-10 09:14:12
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answered by minootoo 7
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not to be mean, but it sounds like he has moved on to someone else and just doesnt know how to tell you and now that his "new" girl probably said something to him about the phone call he is probably even more scared now because he knows you found out even before he wanted you too, thats messed up, hope i helped,
and in my opinion you should call him up again and demand what is going on and ditch that loser you deserve better =)
2007-05-10 09:09:16
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answered by ♥ Lyss 1
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umm sorry sister you were just a booty call. you really have to watch out for guys like this they get you when you least expect it. Don't even worry about it just go on with your life like he was never even there. Find someone gotter and way better!
good luck!
2007-05-10 09:31:59
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answered by Anonymous
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He's playing you and apparently doesn't care about it. I am quite sure he knows that the other girl talked to you and he didn't even bother to call you to try to explain or anything,( even if he didn't know he still didn't call). I would call just to confront him just to get it off my chest and then forget about him.
2007-05-10 09:11:23
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answered by 2sexy 2cute 4
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Here are 5 indications that a guy is no longer in love with you.
http://living.oneindia.in/relationship/love-and-romance/love-with-you.html
See if it fits your situation. If he is out of love, he will not stalk you. Talk to him personally though
2007-05-11 00:23:47
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answered by Cosmic 2
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