2007-05-10 08:50:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on how kind you truly are.
Do you remember the phrase "nice guys finish last".
Sadly, sometimes its the truth. If your self-sacrificing and noble then you will finsih last most of the time. People think that your weak because your kind because thats natural. When they see bullies who want to pick a fight they assume that person is strong because he shows-off his strength and people notice it. if your are nice then it is really hard to show your strength to people and thus people assume that you have no strength and you are not willing to admit it. These thoughts happen naturally and instinctivly.
-hope I answered your question
2007-05-10 08:56:02 · answer #1 · answered by leafshadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, that kinda sucks. Cruel people will always think that people are not going to be kind unless they have to be. If someone treats you that way, at least you know what kind of person that they are -- and you can tell them that if you want to. It might do them some good to learn that they are pathetic for thinking that way about good people like you.
Having said that, have you ever considered the fact that maybe you are being too nice to some people? Sometimes we try to impress someone by acting overly kind, but this backfires because people think that you are being fake and manipulative. There is nothing wrong about saying "no" to a friend's request if they are being unreasonable, or asking for too much.
2007-05-10 09:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people who're not so variety yet are conceited think of that being all staggering and sort won't get you everywhere subsequently the rationalization they are like that, those human beings percieve kindness to be a weak point merely via fact they havn't have been given that potential (kindness) in themselves! that's unhappy while human beings say or think of that via fact that's not a all genuine! great question! that's a sort of question that in many situations desires to be theory approximately and recognized!
2016-10-15 07:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they have no class about themseleves..stay true to who you are..i have been in same situations..i am naturally a nice person thats the way the lord made me and i would not change for anyone..i just limit the people in my life...i really dont get that though you try to be nice to people and all they think about is what they can get from you...
2007-05-10 09:01:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they prey on people with a good heart because they think that any one who is kind is stupid. They are users and have no morals or concience about anything. Kind people are givers, and users like that are takers.
2007-05-10 08:55:47 · answer #5 · answered by wilfeistykitten2003 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
becaus ethey believe that if your doing the right thing or you are too kind that you always follow the rule and dont challenge yourself enough to be called strong.
2007-05-10 08:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by ~*~Smile~*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are using butt heads! I know how you feel! Dont change who you are though, your the one that will always come out on top
2007-05-10 08:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
bcuz they a re cold-hearted selfish bitchezzz. thats y.
2007-05-10 08:52:17 · answer #8 · answered by LIZ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cuz they wanna use you. if ur nice they r gonna use u.. suck u dry... don make that mistake..
2007-05-10 08:54:14 · answer #9 · answered by yingyanginthisthang 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋