i dont know what i am supposed to do, it feels like my like is not worth living anymore and i dont care about anything. i am seeing a counsellor and am on anti depressants, they do nothing. has anyone got some advice on this? i've lost the love of my life because i have depression, its a little unfair i think.
2007-05-10 08:34:12 · 7 answers · asked by david b 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
yes it IS unfair. i know very well the feeling of depression and i understand the way you feel. seek professional help, tell them about your anti-depressant and they might give you another kind because some medicines do not work with some body systems. try to keep yourself busy by practicing physical exercises, yoga, meditation. talk to someone it helps sometimes. don't stay inside, go out as much as you can and try not to stay alone. i know that you feel that you got no energy to do any of that and it's normal coz this is what depression is all about and you feel hopeless. but you should fight these feelings... fight... fight... fight ..as for the girl you love, if she does not stick with you in your most difficult times than she does not deserve you.. do not think that it is your fault and that she is excused.. she 's the bad person here.. don't underestimate yourself, you ARE special and no one can change that... hope you beat your depression (you can do it if you really want to) just believe in yourself and everything will work out just fine...
GOOD LUCK
2007-05-10 08:53:59 · answer #1 · answered by mograbi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know what sweety, when people love you and true love you they stick around and help during the hard times and have fun with you in the good times--this is whether you are married or not....you might be depressed but there are so many things that counselors and psychotherapists and psychologist can do for depression, that you don't have to give up. Maybe this person was just looking for a reason to leave anyway?? Talk to your counselor and tell him/her that the anti-depressant isn't working for you and try something new--some antidepressants work on some people and some others have to try a few out before they find one that works. don't give up on yourself though--and if you lose someone because they cant understand your depression--then they aren't worth having--change your meds and your life love--making those 2 changes might just change your entire life for the better!! don't give up--try some new things and i hope that you find happiness--good luck!
2007-05-10 08:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by TWIN91 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i was watchin this baby program with my little sister a few days ago an i'm not sayin ur dumb or any thing but if u start trying to be a bit more positive then u will start feeling better. or perhaps u would like to contact me (bailsy1@punkass.com) or someone else and try to find out why your so deppressed. then u can go about changing what eva is making u deppressed. Oh an tell her u love her, buy something nice, take her some where and ask her out again. an all da mushy stuff . . . try looking at the mood swings source and see if that gives u any inspiration . . .
2007-05-10 08:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by alex b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is very unfair, but don't put too much into it,....many young women and men, don't really understand that it is something that at least for now, you can't help. You can't expect her to understand if she hasn't been raised that way...best thing for you to do, is to just tell her that you are sorry that you are going through this right now, but it isn't something you can help, and you understand that she doesn't want to be there for you at this time..then you should go find someone who really deserves you...but don't expect any girl to be your anchor, and I don't mean that in a mean way...when you depend on someone else to get by, sometimes you are with them for the wrong reason...Take a deep breath, pray to God, and to Jesus, to give you the REAL strength that you need to get through, and let the chips fall where they may
2007-05-10 08:41:34 · answer #4 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you a christian?
Don't be obsessed with her if she's left, be obsessed with loving God and being everything to be like Him and praise Him. He knows you hurt, and will not only help you, but bring you someone better than her. Someone that will love you for who you are.
If you're focused on God, and your relationship on Him, than these things won't bother you as much. If they do, then atleast you have Him to help you through it. You honestly don't need her at all, but you need God. If you don't believe in God I don't know how to tell you to get over it. A therapist is helpful, but expensive, and impersonal. You're a client to a therapist, but a son to God.
That's just my suggestion.
2007-05-11 15:15:04 · answer #5 · answered by lumiina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a therapist.
figure out whats making you sad.
fix it.
get her back.
live happily ever after.
the end.
2007-05-10 08:40:24 · answer #6 · answered by Amy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you depressed
2007-05-10 08:38:51 · answer #7 · answered by pablo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋