Been with the same guy for better than five years but every 3 to 6 months he just turns really, really mean. So very tierd of it but at this point in my life don't want to do years alone again. Don't like bars and have had no luck in church 'cause the singles always have probs about sex or have grown-up together, and don't have the money for dating sites. Any unique suggestions?
2007-05-10 06:45:04 · 16 answers · asked by smecky809042003 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go do laundry at a laundromat and look for a helpless guy that you can help out
2007-05-10 06:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only going to end up in a bad relationship again if you're just looking for the first available guy. Honestly, you need to break-up with your current boyfriend (if that's what you want to do), and be alone for a while and then start looking for people to date. Getting together with a man just because you don't want to be alone is a recipe for disaster. You'll be a stronger person if you are alone for a little while, builds character.
When you are ready to date, you can search for guys on myspace.com for free.
2007-05-10 06:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with the idea that you need a man to be complete. Then break up with him. Staying in a bad relationship is permission for him to keep doing what he's doing or get worse, not better.
Get out on adventures that you care about. Explore new things that you are interested in. Live your life, apply your mind to growing your experiences and you will find someone who is living right there next to you. It's wonderful to experience. Life happens while you are making plans.
2007-05-10 07:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by emberstoashes_04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, please. Did you say you don't want to be alone. Well there's nothing wrong with being by yourself. I'm single and I've fallen in love with me. Love yourself. Why is it so important to be with someone. If you were really ready to be in a relationship you would be willing to show that you could be by yourself for a while.
The only suggestion I have for you is to stop looking and it (love) will find you. Love yourself enough to let go and let God.
Good luck
2007-05-10 06:52:14 · answer #4 · answered by Heaven26 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
date around i guess,...if havin problems getting a date, find a guy you think you might like and start dropping things (like a pen) around. make sure you do it just far enough away that he cant retrieve the object for you. If he is any kind of guy and if he is interested in you, he'll prob make a move.
2007-05-10 06:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by zoot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you need a man to complete you? Why not be free & single until someone special comes along? Focus on you.
2007-05-10 06:49:18 · answer #6 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You will never find someone when you try so hard. Break off your relationship and get a hobby or join a club. Don't worry about the relationship.
2007-05-10 06:49:23 · answer #7 · answered by qweezyq 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to reflect on yourself and figure out why you need someone. Sometimes being on your own gives you time to reflect and see your inner self. Being self sufficient brings strength. Your soul mate will come in time patience is a virtue.
2007-05-10 06:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by rrxdeadman 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not coming on to you but curious where you live? Is it a populous urban center or somewhere more remote?
2007-05-10 06:49:12 · answer #9 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth Hurts said it very well. spend some time with yourself not by yourself
2007-05-10 06:51:30 · answer #10 · answered by Mr nice guy 2U 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋