my daughters best friend got a text from a guy she met once. he got her number from an unknown source. in the text he asked her if she was still with her boyfriend. she said yes. he then sent a phone picture of his naked self with the caption "U like?"the girl showed to her boyfriend as it scared her that this guy out of nowhere did this. she asked him to stop but he didn't the boyfriend broke up with her thinking she provoked it. well after school i was asked what they should do i read the text exchange and the pic was BAD. she did not provoke it but i am not concerned with that or the boyfriends problem. i immediately blocked his number for her. problem is. i met this guy once at employee picnic that she attended with us and thats when she met him the once. he is a punk. his mother works at same company as my husband. how best to handle this? have her mom call cops? call his parents? him? or pass it off as teen crap. me? i think turn him in
2007-05-10 05:50:02 · 16 answers · asked by jezbnme 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
is 18 she is a minor
2007-05-10 05:50:41 · update #1
she is 17 he is 18 maybe 19 by now
2007-05-10 06:01:25 · update #2
he exposed himself to a minor, take the phone to the police and jerk a knot in his a--
2007-05-10 06:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by whitebuffalo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call the cops. This guy needs to be taught a lesson. That is harrasment. Your daughters friend needs to tell her parents so that they can take matters into their own hands. And also hand over to authorities. This is very serious. Like I said the girls parents need to take care of this situation. You as a parent you would like to know what is going on in your childs life especially something that is very serious like this. Put yourself in the other parents shoes what if this had happened to your child and they knew about it.
2007-05-15 10:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by beenie 21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, CALL THE POLICE!! This will not only bring this guy to light so to speak, but it gives her legal grounds to stand on. Go take a restraining order out on him. Tell your neighbors what is going on nand if they see him or anything suspicious going on around her immediate neighborhood, call the police! There is power in numbers!
2007-05-14 04:40:11 · answer #3 · answered by heavenboundiwillbe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL! Ok this situation isnt funny at all, but I remember when i went through this situation with a guy who was friends with one of my friends whom I nicknamed "SCARY BRAD." Whenever he would call, "Scary Brad" would show up on my phone and i wouldnt answer. One day my sis and i got really annoyed at his *** and she grabbed the phone, and said (in the SAW voice from the movie): "HELLO SCARY BRAD. There is an poison running through your veins that will make you even SCARIER. The antidote is at 47 west first last south east street. You have 25 seconds to get there. *hangs up*" haha. you should say it to him. and if it doesnt work, either dont answer or go to the cops.
2016-04-01 05:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pass it off. They should report it to authorities. Don't take any chances, there are a lot of weirdos out there. You can't assume that it is ok even if he comes from a good family. Make him think twice about harrassing her again or someone else.
2007-05-12 02:15:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would report it to the cops so that it is on file as harrassment, but if she is 18 she is no longer a minor. you or her mother could go with her to the police station, but she needs to be the one to report it. make sure she knows to show the police the pic that she was sent.
2007-05-10 06:04:23 · answer #6 · answered by awolves74 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend that her parents call the cops. That is sexual harassment. It's not as serious as it could be, but I would DEFINATELY have her parents do something about it before it gets WAY outta hand! Do it ASAP!
2007-05-16 11:17:35 · answer #7 · answered by defleppardgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have 2 little girls and the only thing i can think of is to save the pics and show them to the cops it is considered indecent exposure. and as for the boy friend he must not have trusted her anough and is no good for her. no young girl should ever have to see that sort of thing untill they are ready & married
2007-05-17 10:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i personally would speak to his mother i would then report him to the police for harassment and prevent this from happening to anyone else besides thats not normal behavior what else might he do! Good Luck!
2007-05-10 06:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by kazz06 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell the girls parents they need to take the cell from her and change the number. tell her parents soon before she turns up missing. i can almost say with certainty this guy is alot older that he is saying
2007-05-10 06:24:04 · answer #10 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋