im due to be married in october this yr. lately, every sad song, sad movie, or being away from my hubby makes me a wreck. im very happy and excited about the wedding but why do i start crying for no reason? help!!..im a wreck i also find myself missing my hubby more while hes at work. what is this wedding doing to me?
2007-05-10 05:07:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
thanks guys for all the wonderful answers:) and thanks to those who had stupid answers also. i believe some of you guys are right just the pre-wedding jitters ill try to relax more and thanks again for answering:)
2007-05-10 05:36:01 · update #1
OMG I love you for asking this question.
My FH laughs at me, but I cry at EVERYTHING lately. My wedding is in September and we watch Whose wedding is it anyway. and I just break down and ball. Luckily one of the things he loves most about me is my sensitivity, so he just gets me tissues and laughs.
I seriously thought it was just me. Every song I think I could dance to at my wedding I get teary eyed. Whats even worse is when my FH says things like "soon you'll be my wife" or "I'm so glad you're going to be my wife" uh oh here come the waterworks.
2007-05-10 09:13:18 · answer #1 · answered by Chris10L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I'm on the wrong track here, please correct me, but it sounds like the wedding plans are part of the issue as well.
I think that there is a LOT of pressure on a bride to have the perfect day for their wedding day. It's understandable that the pressure may be getting to you.
So, what can you do to take some of the pressure off.
First of all, find a way not to allow yourself to get so stressed out when something doesn't go right with the wedding plans. I think that almost every wedding has problems in it, so it really won't be a huge issue if something doesn't go perfectly. The important thing to do concerning the wedding is to make it something you and the groom will enjoy.
Can you simplify some of the items? I think that a lot of time there are far too many details that just are not always necessary. While you want your day to be memorable, what is truly important here is that this wedding day is a celebration for you and your new husband of your new life together. What is more important are the days after the wedding, not the day of celebration.
So, write everything down, keep it in a planner and organize everything, but allow yourself permission to have a wedding that is meaningful and don't worry if it's perfect. Because no matter what happens, it will be a special day for you.
2007-05-10 05:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by Searcher 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know just how you feel! I am getting married October 13, and I am just so EMOTIONAL, both good and bad emotions are just so much stronger than usual! It's an exciting, yet scary time! I love my fiancee very much, and the thought of making a lifelong commitment in front of everyone just makes me feel that much more lovey and mushy. The thought of losing him scares me so every time I hear a sad song on the radio I get weepy. There's just SO MUCH happening now that emotions are heightened. It is totally normal! Good luck with the rest of your planning and congratulations on the upcoming wedding!!
2007-05-10 05:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I thinks its the wedding freak outs...it seems alot of people have that--and I'm sure I will be among them as my wedding draws near. Everyone seems like this is the most wonderful time of their lives, but it's also scary becasue your whole life is about to change! Every time people go through a huge change, this is a possiblity! Once you settle into married life, this will all go away, and you'll be back to your normal self.
2007-05-10 05:14:03 · answer #4 · answered by melouofs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi i know the feeling well i got married 10 weeks ago we were suppose to get wed in oct last year but i got pregnant
with our second child which we were thrilled about but it was really stressful rearranging the wedding and i was so worried i wouldn't get back into the dress we bought 2 weeks before i found out i was expecting! my son was only 7 weeks old on the day.
but i did and the day was perfect i was really nervous and we had a Hugh row in the early hours of the morning and i thought the day would be ruined but like i said it was amazing.
enjoy your day coz its over with in a flash and its surprising how flat you feel after wards. hope you have the day of your dreams.
2007-05-10 07:00:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to be a wet-blanket - but life isn't going to be a fairy tale just because you marry a really great guy. It's just going to be life as usual - except that you're married to a great guy. You will still have bills to pay, a job to do, house to clean and meals to fix.
But you will have married a great guy - and that's good. Good is, well, good. It's not perfect. Please try to lighten up a little before Great Guy feels like he's marrying a basket case and decides that he's not quite up for all the drama.
Gosh! What's going to happen when you have a baby?
Perhaps a good yoga class can help you relax a little.
2007-05-10 05:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Getting married is a big deal, and hopefully for you it will a one time thing which makes it even more major...I think your emotions are perfectly normal right now...just try to breath a little slower and relax...it will be okay...God Bless!
2007-05-10 05:12:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're just a ball of nerves already!!! It's nothing wrong with it. It's cute. You're probably just overwhelmed by what's about to happen and the love you too share. Just whatever you do, don't let that feeling fade =)
2007-05-10 05:12:38 · answer #8 · answered by newsgal03 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like house wife syndrome..... I read your bio..... can you get out of the house and go to a gym or part time job?? Maybe you just need some you time to relax and not think about everything!! One of my girlfriends worked at old navy for 2 hours in the evening and she loved it.... sometime you just need to get out of the house.
2007-05-10 05:18:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Congrats Jenn! wish you have a super wedding ceremony! I wish you the suitable! tell me the way it is going! solid luck to the Brewers too, wish you have a super wedding ceremony! you're a super touch! And on your question, I do rejoice with all my acquaintances!
2017-01-09 14:31:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋