I have no money saved yet but im working on it, im moving to idaho on the 26th and ill be staying with my parents but i want to be on my own, any advice?
2007-05-10 04:53:48 · 32 answers · asked by adamleedrake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Unless a parent signs with you, it's unlikely that you'll be able to get an apartment or other rental residence before you're 19. In the meantime, save up all the money you can because without renter's credit you'll have to pay a large deposit. For example whenever I moved to this apartment I had to pay $1400 as a deposit, even though my rent is $600 a month. If you're interested in college or other secondary education, I would go for that while living at home. You could get a place to stay on campus but regardless you won't be at home much because of school and probably work. Although it is very liberating to live on your own and you do feel very accomplished, it comes with a lot of responsibilities. You just want to make sure you have several thousands saved beforehand because the last thing you need when you're just starting out is fees for canceling your lease, overdue charges, and extremely expensive rent and utilities.
2007-05-10 04:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by Missy K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save money. You'll need 2 months' rent, if not three, when finding an apartment for yourself.
Find a job that covers your rent and potential utilities. Decide if you will need/want to share an apartment with someone.
Explore the cost of living in the area to find out what the average rent, salary and utilities are, so that you can approach the first few points.
Get yourself reliable affordable transportation.
Use a budget to make sure you always pay your bills on time, every time, and don't overspend on luxury and entertainment.
2007-05-10 04:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by Jarien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First get a job lined up where you'll be living. Then start looking for a place to live, or finding roommates so you can afford somewhere livable. That's it! Now all you have to do is remember to clean occasionally and to have enough money in the bank for unexpected expenses. Usually when moving out fails it's cause you need new brakes or a new washer or something that you can't live without and you can't afford. So you move back home til you "catch up". But catching up is just another way of saying "Not ready".
2007-05-10 04:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by Tim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have no money saved up or no real plan, sorry- your not ready to be on your own.
I had my plan at 16, saved until I was 18 and moved to a diff. state. I had my own place, car and two jobs. I sacrificed a ton when I was your age to have what I have now.
Start first by getting a decent job. Start saving little by little. An apartment is not cheap and it comes with bills like utilities, cable, phone not to mention having to buy furniture and food.
Make a plan and set goals. Good luck!
2007-05-10 04:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by M R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously consider the military. If you're single its a great money making gig! A 4 year contract and you can save up ungodly amounts of money. Not to mention have experience under your belt, as well as the MGIB if you decide you want to go to college.
You can travel and see the world as well. You also have all the medical benefits, as well as 30 days paid vacation a year. *In the Air Force atleast, not sure about the other branches* Contact a recruiter.
My family went from living with friends and scraping to buy groceries to a 19,000 new car, our own 4 bedroom house, and extra money every month to do fun stuff with. It really is a great opportunity.
2007-05-10 04:59:07 · answer #5 · answered by natashasellner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, save up as much as you can and get a job when you move. Then, start looking at apartments, and find out how much they're going for. If you don't think that you make enough to get one on your own, as well as pay for the utilities, etc, then I would suggest finding a roomate. There are websites and other agencies that match up roomates, and will even do background checks so you don't end up with a psycho. Good luck!
2007-05-10 06:05:55 · answer #6 · answered by eviltruitt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adam, I realize that you want the freedom of your own space. After all you are at a socially acceptable age to be out on your own and experiencing life without mom and dad hanging over your shoulder. I completely understand where it is that you are coming from. The desire and urge to "leave the nest" is very normal and healthy. However, there are many factors involved here that will either pave the way for you to succesfully live on your own at this time. Or lead to your demise. Ask yourself these questions: (1) are your finances sufficient to meet the current cost of living standards? (2) If so, do you have persons in the area who will be supportive of you. This should hopefully include mom and dad. (3) Are you ready to deal with all of the emotional,social, and financial stressors that come along with being self-sufficient? (3)How well do you handle confrontational situations? Do you have the coping skills neccasary to deal with let's say a neighbor that drives you out of your mind with loud music. Or how about a landlord that is finicky about something you find trivial.
Adam, after you have time to ask yourself these things take time to think them all out in a mature fashion. I can imagine that mom has her doubts as to whether or not you can manage on your own. That to is typical of any mother. She Loves you, and wants to protect you from the world which is healthy to a certain degree. The fact that you are ready to assert your independance in the world outside of home shows that you are not scared of your independance which is a good stepping stone toward being on your own. So Adam my best advice to you would be to just make sure you get all your chicks in a row before leaving the nest !!
Best wishes..........laceyemerill
Ps. just read what others had to say. Alot of really great advice has been sent your way. I would look at all the answers and incorporate them all into setting a goal for yourself.Good Luck to you
2007-05-10 05:57:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to keep saving. you have to be able to show that you have a decent bank account and have had a job for at least 1 yr before a rental agency will give you a lease. you may need a co-signer as well, depending how old you are when you rent. get yourself a decent job when you get to idaho. don't spend your check on stupid things and learn how to budget your money. your parents can help you with that. think about a roomate to share expenses when you move too. good luck.
2007-05-10 05:00:33 · answer #8 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need money and an income. I assume you have no credit, it will be tough to get an apartment with your parents co-signing.
This means they will be held liable if you mess up your apartment, dont make payments etc etc.
But basically you look for apartments, contact the landlord and see if you want to live there.
If so you make a deposit, which is usually the amunt fo 1 months rent and you start living there after you agree upon a lease. (6 mos. to a year usually). When youre done living there assuming the landlord doesnt need to use your deposit to fix anything broken in the apartment you get the money back.
2007-05-10 04:58:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, even if you make good money, you need to learn to save save save. Always look at the prices. You'll be paying rent, bills, food, gas, etc. You could get furniture for your place through yard sales or classifieds. I remember wanting to move out and live on my own and now i wish i could go back and not have to worry about all the monthly expenses! Good Luck!
2007-05-10 04:57:32 · answer #10 · answered by Willo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋