I had a contact with this guy through email. I was immpressed with his ideas. I have some feelings for him. we decided to see eachother and we met, he was so ugly. I am confused. what shall I do?
2007-05-10 04:51:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, if you were originally attracted to him for his ideas and concepts, then you can continue to have a friendship with him and continue to share thoughts and ideas.
If however you were strictly in the market for a hook-up and romantic relationship then don't lead him on; tell him straight up that he's not what you're looking for in a guy and that you hope he has a nice life. Then just don't answer his emails, etc.
2007-05-10 04:56:52 · answer #1 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you don't show any effection toward him that way. After a while he'll get that you just want to be friends. Just because you have a friend thats a guy doesnt mean you have to like him a certain way.
ps. meeting someone after just emailing them isnt that safe, emotionly and physicly
2007-05-10 04:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by lopez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you are saying, but since you have feelings for him, perhaps you should see where they lead. Often, people become more attractive the more that you care about them because their personality and soul shine through. He may very well become the most beautiful person you have ever seen.
2007-05-10 04:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being with someone has very little to do with looks. If you realyly like him stay with him. But if you don't like him that much just tell him you are not ready to settle and you want to keep looking for your special someone.
2007-05-10 04:55:46 · answer #4 · answered by Lizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say mm your ugly im not interested, i did the same kind of thing nback when i wa slike 17 and i totaly blew the guy off,quit returning emails phone calls etc,if your not interested nothing can change thta,ppl say looks dont matter but yes they do.. he cant be butt a s s ugly
2007-05-10 04:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffany 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That is shallow of you. Your feelings shouldnt be thrown out just because he is ugly. You dont deserve him
2007-05-10 04:55:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep e-mailing him and stop the physical meetings...
2007-05-10 04:55:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not sexually attracted to him you cant help it but dont carry on with him, just tell him you want to be friends,
xx
2007-05-10 04:55:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remain friends.
and try not to be judgmental.
2007-05-10 04:55:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please be gentle when you let him know that you are no longer interested.
Remember well, this very important lesson!
Repeat to yourself: "I will NEVER do this again"
2007-05-10 04:57:35 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋