Guys, if you love the girl so much, then you found out she was not virgin anymore but lose it only with one guy.
Do you still want to marry her despite of what happen??
2007-05-10 03:54:46 · 24 answers · asked by Zack Y 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Languages
i would want someone to marry me because they love me, despite of what i have or not have done in the past. im still a virgin, and plan to be, untill i get married or untill i know im ready.
2007-05-10 03:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by brens 3 · 4⤊ 3⤋
Yes, I'm not a virgin and have not been for a long time.
Why would I insist that the woman I love be one?
This is a cultural and religious issue but personally I do not see sexual purity as an issue to hinder love.
Further more my religion does not condemn sexual promiscuity between single consenting adults.
2007-05-10 11:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it matters and no I would not have wanted to marry her after that.
When I was about 25 and single I dated a very cute 19 year old I had met while visiting another church.
She was honest in telling me that she had lived with another guy for nearly a year, which she told me on our first date.
However, at that point I had no more interest in her.
That was also our last date.
Pastor Art
2007-05-10 11:42:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you know that virginity is a word reserved for use only when referring to a female? Did you know that historically a hymen that wasn't intact rendered a female as damaged goods and worth less? Did you know that the term virgin was originally meant to denote the value of a human being? Doing such treats this female human being as a commodity, a piece of property.
2007-05-10 11:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by Peter D 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes. If you love a girl that much you would want to have sex with her before marrying her to make sure that you really are 100% compatible. I would hate to think that you would buy a car without test driving it.. Love is the same. you need to be sure so it doesn't end in divorce!
2007-05-10 10:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by Vintage Glamour 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Dude you are never going to find a virgin....geesh those days are long gone just try to pick a chick that hasn't been around the block too many times. Virginity haha thats no long in existance by the age of 13 now at days.
2007-05-10 10:58:37 · answer #6 · answered by laalaa115 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Whats virginity nowadays
Sex has become as common as some1 trying their first smoke etc.
So only fools think that virginity is an issue nowadays.
2007-05-10 10:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by sm3gol 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well this all depends on you your morals and your beliefs . Marriage is very important but because you LOVE her it really shouldn't matter...lets remember love is forgiving and over is also over looks and is gentle and kind .
2007-05-10 11:23:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is such a big issue for you that you can't decide you really need to examine your feelings for this girl. If you love her, her past shouldn't matter.
2007-05-10 11:00:42 · answer #9 · answered by mrthing 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on your love for her, your culture, your ideas about virginity!!! Our opinion doesn't matter!
2007-05-10 11:11:16 · answer #10 · answered by Blossom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋