Seeing girls as pieces of meat... who really thinks this? the guys or anti abortionists?

Question

The guys who go to pole dance and jelly wrestling bars often cheering on the girls, admirelying the view but being friendly and would be cool being mates or girlfriend with them.


Likewise watching porn.


Or the relgious moralists inc woemn


who are anti contraception and anti abortion who see girls as nothing more then a walking womb once pregnant even in the first few weeks who care nothing for the females well being or fututre life, calling her a ****, whore, dirty, sinner.

Who if she has the kid is seen as a scrounger, who cant keep legs shut who deserves the consequences of her actions.


even when she only made love to the one guy who she thought loved her and would not have got pregnant with proper sex ed and contraception advice.


Or those who would make abortion illegal leading to the horros of back street abortion.


Or if a girl has several boyfriends as they dont work out spit in her face calling her a filthy whore etc.?

Or those who would diswown a girl for having a boyfriend or kill her in an honour killing as she did not obey her father and brothers control over her sex life?



But mainly the anti abortionisists who see a girls as nothing more then a foetus feeder and care nothing for the girls.



Its the guys wanting to see the girl naked who cop it but in reality most would probably stick up for the girls they may see as potential freidn or girlfriends just with bits like inbuilt playstations that are fun to see and play with.


but the person goes with them

You can tell its the moralists who see girls as pieces of meat bey how they treat single mothers and pregnant teenger girls and views on abortion.

Or how they say girls must give up everything for their kids etc.


Whereas the guys ay think nice boobies and want to see girls minus clothes... they generally would treat a porn star if they met one like anyone one else, just with nice attractive features.


So saying its the moralists who see girls as meat and dont give a damn about their well being...

If it was a choice of foetus or girl the girl as far as they are concerned is nothing and expendable

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However, mud pits and strip clubs are just as demeaning, just in a different way


Not really


I go to a regualr bar that has jelly wrestling matches etc and they get guys in the pit too... And been in one... Lots of fun.

The girls in the crowd cheering the girls to get the guys boxers off and the guys cheering the guy to get the girls top off...


yes the guys what to see the girls loose tops and hopefully bottoms.


But really its a giggle much like those gunge games when you were a kid on kids tv.

And you would see the girls involed as good mate and girlfriend material as a laugh and not uptight.


And would want to defend them if somone was mean just like your mate

And in this place the girls out of the crowd get involved for fun with mates pissing themselves laughing, girls and guys and bar tabs or other prises.


You can get many jobs out of despiration... Id rather do that then be in some monotonous boring factory prioduction line job etc

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Ting


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What I guess you are asking is who is the whore the guys who look at girls as meat or the girls who sleep around


NO

Im saying who are the bad guys who treat woemn bad... the guys admiring the view or the so called relgious moralists who treat the girls like dirt especailly pregnant teenagers seeing them as nothing more then baby incubators to abuse

Who im attacking is those who would call you dirty and worthless and a whore etc...

Most of the guys who go to hookers etc.


Are simply lonlye...

You have a guy who any girl he liked treat him like hes nothing, very lonley then in a bar where the girls will go with him.


its more a company thing in most cases caused by the girls who treated him bad and left him lonley.


And girls often reject guys who are needy so going with a hooker girl he kinds learns about girls and what to do so less needy and more likely to find love just like a woman wants to.


However saying that many of the guys should if met you again say hi.


The giys you were with long time were bad but most just paying for somone to be close with.


But its those who would deny you a job say as a teachers as think you are immoral.. those are the really bad people.

Its like in the tsnamae in Thailand.


When helping others good people would not treat the bar girls any different.

Lonely people may have gone to look at the bar girls and maybe spend time with them.


But its the moral relgious types who would deny you help if you needed it as they considered you a bad person who deserves no help.


That clearer.

Wish you the best in any future life ting...


You are a nice sounding person...

Im not relgious hence thinking like that.

The people who treated you bad were scum.


not all pole dance bar owners or even brothel owners are like that.


Many would just be running an bar or brothel and look after the girls there and not let anyone be mean to them.


Like a nice factory with unions and agym or a nasty sweat shop one

Answer 1

I can definetely appreciate your point. Women should and do have rights, and deserve to be allowed to be more than just baby making machines, mothers, and wives. It's great that you recognize the folly of that role.

However, mud pits and strip clubs are just as demeaning, just in a different way. The men who go to strip clubs don't go because they think the dancers are great people, they go because the dancers are hot. I don't really have any problem with the thought of a strip club if the woman really wants to be there, but I'm disturbed by the thought that some women will take jobs in such places out of desperation, and that makes what they go through there horrible and humiliating.

Answer 2

not sure what your message is sounds like you've been hurt, or knows someone that did. i am anti abortion. its not about the womb. its about the baby. you just cant kill a innocent baby from God. its just plain wrong. if you are granted the merical of life then you need to do your best and be a good parent. and yes, i have an out of wedlock baby. but, you know what. i dont get all those bad stairs or anything. i am treated good becouse i demand it and becouse most people in general really are not for abortion. yes, some people have jumped to conclusions, but my life is very clean and sterile. back street abortions. my mother had one in the 1930's in chicago. she had to drive a long way to get there and then when they did it, it was ugly. she was glad she had it done, but she never got over it. she talked about it until the day she died. i beleive that day she went to get an abortion not only did the baby die, but a piece of my mom's mind did too. talked to another woman back in the early 90's and she had felt the same way about her abortion. and both women my mom and her both agreed that they had wished that they could have raised their babys.

i think the best thing you need to do if you live in a western country is to get a back bone and stand up for yourself and not worry about what other people may call you. good luck

Answer 3

I hear guys referred to as pieces of meat (esp since the penis is often referred to that way) much more than women. Someone who thinks any person as just a piece of meat, has no respect for them and isn't a kewl person to begin with. As for being seen as who we are, not what we look like, that preference tends to still be with regard to guys we'd like to date. Most of us don't mind being friends with guys, but when we see or meet a guy we are attracted to, we typically would like him to find us appealing on more than just a physical level. As for being respected at school or work...most people want that but few want only that.

Answer 4

I am a woman and I will try my best to answer what I think you are asking. What I guess you are asking is who is the whore the guys who look at girls as meat or the girls who sleep around. I am not agians abortion under the right conditions. first off. but let me tell you a story.
There once was a girl who everyone told her she was beautiful. then one day her parents devorced and she whent to live with her father in Thailand. he used her beauti for his own gain. he made her pose for porn and later sold her to a man who treated her badly and finaly grew tired of her and sold her to a brothel. the girl stayed there for a year being raped beaten and used for sex. a man came in and bought her and to her home. at first he was nice but latter began selling her to his friends to get money. she gave him three children. one being a son that bosted his standing in his family. after some time the girl grew oldre and he could nolonger get money off her and he beat her and left her and the three kids on the street. a stranger came who saw what had happened and took her in finding her mother and sending her to her. her mother took her in and loved her. she nursed her back to health. then one day it was time for her to be a wife again and her mother went to look for her a husband. he found a man willing to take her evn though she was dirty and worth very little. at first he loved her and she gave him a son. then the girl learned he was going and seeing the girls that had been in the place she had been in and she was hurt and sad. she could nolonger feel safe with this man but continued to stay with him because she knew she was worthless and no one would want her. her mother was old and unable to care for her if she were to leave. the girl is now 25 years old and tired and feels very alone and sad in this world.
What should she do? Is she to blame for all these things? Is she a **** or are the men? Is she worthy of love?
This girl is real she is me.

Did I help to answer any of your questions? that is my life experince. As I see it many girls in porn of any kind are not there because they want to be. Some are there because of force or they think that it is the only way they can feel loved because most men look at women that way and that is what love is just sex. I have been thru that world and seen many girls. it is all the same. most are unhappy even if they look it.
A woman is more than just a womb and she is more then just sex. she is human just like a man and has feelings. no man wants to see his mother, sister or daughter looked at that way. They want them loved for their insides and treated like a human. I think the men who do this a sluts and should stop looking a women as meat and then there would be less women out there that are in porn and prostitution. The industry sells because there is a market. Without the market the industry would crumble. women would start to feel better about themself and be happy being mothers and wives. I see women her in the states now that are mad all the time and I know why. It is because theyknow they are treated less then human. I see this in more older women because they have seen the world. as for the girls who sleep around. ask yourself why they are doing it. they are doing it because everywhere you look the world says sex is love and they just want to be love and don't know that it isn't sex that is love. The girls the only sleep with one man and have a child should not be condemed. they should be seen as making a mistake with the wrong man and everyone makes mistakes.
the women who treat other women this way know nothing about the other womans feelings and life and should shut their mouths. men who look at women as meat should learn women a human.

Answer 5

growing up with a brother had influence for all kinds of fifthy talk trash names still stick with me he talked like that to be cool but didnt care sister was hearing all guy talkin trailer trash to his buddies and i guess he thought girls were that

Answer 6

A valid point, well done. Yet when we say this we are called man hating lesbians!

Answer 7

I got bored half way through this so can anyone tell me what it's about?

Answer 8

I wish everyone was as open minded as you. I hate people who think they can run your life.

Answer 9

STARTED READING THIS GOT BOARD....!
SO WILL HAVE THE TWO POINTS AND RUN!

Answer 10

you should be in hyde park mate