my aunt is in a coma i need some reassurances plz help?

Question

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Answer 1

hi naila its rgsiguana, im so sorry what happened to your aunt, and i send my deepest condolences and will pray for her and your family for her to get out of the coma and get better so she may enjoy her life with you all again. i know you say she is in a coma and what you can do is whene you see her talk to her by her side and reassure her that you are all their waiting for her to come back to you all and just be with her and pray to god that everything will be okay. i will pray for all of you and god bless you all, rgsiguana

Answer 2

I am sure many would like to be of assistance, and offer you some reassurance. However, you haven't given much information here. Why is she in a coma? How long has she been in a coma? These are things that a person needs to know to offer up any kind of informed assurance hon. I know you must be worried, but try to remember that everything has a reason for happening and every happening has it's own time.

Answer 3

Comas are a deep sleep while body works on what it needs to do. I know it's hard to see a loved one like that. All the machines and the tubes and monitors are intimidating and scary. If you ask the nurse questions you may find that some of them are doing very simple things. You may see a blood pressure machine, a breathing machine, a pulse oximeter which are all doing very simple tasks. My point is maybe if you know what's going on, you'll feel comforted.

Speak to your aunt because she probably can hear you, no matter what the docs say. My uncle was in a coma and they said no he can't hear you, he's just twitching out of reflex. We spoke to him anyways, because I knew inside he was fighting thru the fog to make sense of what was going on. When he awoke, he was able to recount things we had said to him. Let her know you are there and will be waiting for her when she's ready.

Answer 4

I think everything happens for a reason. I am not religious, butI do believe that things in life aren't random. I do not know about your aunt's situation b/c you weren't specific, but many times people are in comas temporarily after severe trauma and can come out of it without problems. I would just try to be there for her as much as you can and don't get yourself too upset. You are doing all you can right now by having her in your thoughts so just wait and see how things turn out. Things have a way of working themselves out in the end a lot of times.

Answer 5

I was in a coma this time last year for a week . Shes probably having dreams as i did when you sleep. the playing of favourite music and the hand holding and whispering love doesn't actually work I know we'd like to think it does but sorry it doesn't she's in another world you have just got to hope she comes through.

Answer 6

I can't give reassurances nor should or anyone that answers your question. We don't know. I will tell you to talk to her, hold her hand. She is in there and can hear and feel your love. I had a son in comma and did all these things and more. My son woke up after 1 month. I was truly blessed. I hope your Aunt will be fine in time but this is entirely unpredictable. Love her and let her know it. She can sense you.

Answer 7

I am sorry to read that, what happened to her. Coma is just a way of saying that the body needs to heal. She may come out of it anytime depending on the reason. Make sure you visit and talk to her, maybe play some of her favourite music, something familiar is proven to help. Best of Luck, let us know how she's doing!!

Answer 8

Talk to her in a nice soft voice whenever possible. Tell her about your day, even if it's not anything you would consider interesting. There are some good studies that show that coma patients can hear and do recognize voices that they know.
Good luck to you

Answer 9

It's hard to be rassuring without knowing exactly what her condition is. One thing that may help is to talk to her. Even though she may not visibly respond to you, she may hear what you say to her.
Talk to her doctors and nurses about her potential for recovery. Keep paper & pen handy to write down questions you want to ask because you might not remember what you want to ask when you have the chance.
Even the doctors will probably not be able to tell you exactly what will happen with her. I will keep her & you in my prayers.

Answer 10

i was in coma for 3 weeks after horrendous car accident that my skull was cracked. during the coma, i felt i was in peace. i knew i was sleeping and i couldnt wake up but at same time, i didnt wanted to wake up. your aunt is feeling no pain. she is at peace right now.

i think i felt more pain after coma then during the coma. i felt so refreshed after i woke up from coma. she is at better place... jung hang on. read book to her. read newspaper to her, let her know what is going on outside. be with her. she knows that you are there. be happy =)