This dude I had been banging gave me herpes. When I told him about it he act like he was stupid! I dont fool with his triffling tail anymore but I know where he stay... what now? I dont wanna do anything where it can come back to me,.. but its bothering me to know that this sucka dont even care!!!! I know the main reason that everyone is passing std's is because no one wants to man up to their mistakes. Even in this situation, I know that I'm at fault too... but that doesnt mean that I'll point my fingers when my hands arent too clean either. All I want is some understanding. Why isnt a situation like this taken seriously?
2007-05-03 04:45:30 · 4 answers · asked by KYMME G 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
a long time ago this girl i was banging gave me claps(ghonnarhea). i confronted her but i was not in a relationship so i knew there was a possibility that i might not be the only one. but i told her and also told her that she had to go to the doctor with me and if it's an std she would need to be seen too. we did that and it felt much better in every way afterward. in your situation there isn't exactly a cure so it 's more complex but i would first try to get that person to go to the doctor. i mean it's like the first mature thing to do is deal with it. if the both of you know what you have that is some relief than having and not knowing. it's the sacrafices you have to make now such as taking precautions not to infect anyone else and building your life and future with this new situation to adjust to. who are you seeing now? how is that and will you tell the men that want to date you? or will you try to do it when things appear to be normal and take chances of passing on the problem? these are the questions he had to ask himself and if not you should find a way to put it into his mind so the next time he will be more careful. i like the way your mind thinks. it's a reflection of your heart and if you want a friend and someone to talk to my name is devin and you can holla back at your boy. you would be suprised what guilt does to people in the end. don't forget to ask God for forgiveness and to heal you from it too. Forgive the guy but use that anger against the disease now because God is going to take care of him if it was on purpose and if it wasn't and you like the dude and he likes you then at least you know what each other have and that might work out well in the end. think about those that have hiv or aids? who can they talk to? who will love them? who can they date? who the hell can they tell?holla back at your boyee. ONE
2007-05-03 05:26:54 · answer #1 · answered by carOLina wiLdcaT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone wants to pass STD's around. I contracted herpes from my bf of 7yrs on our 2nd yr. He wasn't given a choice and nevertheless neither was I. Then again he's at fault and not me for banging a whore (which he already knew). And the day I decide to be single and start dating I will definitely let my partner know before we get intimate just because I want to make sure that person makes the choice not me. Some people who have it and pass around really don't care about other peoples feeling and the damage the can cause emotionally on someone who contract herpes. Its been a roller coaster ever since I got that. All I can tell you is don't be like him and like the whore that slept with my bf who slept around passing an STD and not caring but, please do believe that what goes around ALWAYS comes around. Everything bad you do in life catches up. Please protect yourself and educate yourself to avoid being such a uncomfortable situation....good luck =)
2007-05-03 05:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are men (and women) out there who don't care if they pass something to another person.
I contracted genital herpes over 6 years ago from the second guy I had ever been with. My first boyfriend I was with for almost 4 years and he didn't have anything. To this day, the second guy still claims he doesn't have the virus and that he never gave it to me.
If a person is having sex they need to realize you can't always take someone elses word. People lie and cheat ALL the time. You have to be careful and responsible. You are ultimately the one responsible for your health, no one else. Know your STD history and your partners before you have sex with them. Be careful and stay safe!
2007-05-03 05:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by Alli 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just don't care about others...
some people just want to please themselves and not care who they hurt.
Sorry you had to experience it...
Maybe he didn't know he had it either? if he did thats messed up!
thank God he didn't have Aids/HIV
Good Luck and God Bless
2007-05-03 04:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋