how do youtell someone you have herpes?

Answer 1

you better tell before you hit the sheets! that's how. and if your gonna do it use condoms

Answer 2

Telling somebody can be really hard. If you are looking into getting into a relationship with somebody tell them. If they cannot accept it they aren't right for you.

Be honest, herpes is a lot more common then most people think. Read the facts about it and be able to help the person understand and not just freak out.

Good luck and remember there are a lot more people with herpes then people think. check out the website attached for help
http://www.famvir.com/info/living/genital-herpes-talking.jsp

Answer 3

If you are going to have sex with them, or date them, then there is no easy way. Just sit them down, and tell them, but you can't make herpes sound like the end of the world or else telling them is pretty much pointless. Or you could get them really drunk, and tell them that way if they freak most likely they won't remember in the morning. And if it's just a friend trust me don't tell. I dont care how good of friends you are they don't need to know they will hold it against you.

Answer 4

Having herpes is hard enough. Finding someone who can overlook this is even harder. Before you get serious with anyone tell them. It isn't fair. I was told after and it sucked. I am still with him, but I was hurt and still am. It isn't fair not to tell them. Be honest if they like you they will stay.

Answer 5

There are two strains of the herpes virus: Herpes Simplex Type 1 and Herpes Simplex Type 2. Herpes Simplex 1 is responsible for oral herpes, more commonly known as cold sores, which generally show up on or around the mouth. Herpes Simplex 2 is responsible for genital herpes and is considered to be a sexually transmitted disease.

When Will the Symptoms of Herpes Appear?
Once you have been exposed to the virus through direct skin-to-skin contact, it can take anywhere from two to 20 days before your first episode of symptoms of genital herpes will occur. While the first outbreak of herpes is usually the worst one you will experience, as much as 60% of those infected with the virus will fail to notice any symptoms because the outbreak is so mild. Even if you do not have any symptoms, though, you can still pass on the virus to your sexual partners.

On average, the first herpes outbreak in men lasts about two weeks while in women the average is three weeks. Additionally, because women frequently experience their herpes sores in the vagina, many may mistake the few herpes symptoms they have for some other type of infection. You may confuse herpes with an outbreak of boils. Boils are larger and more painful, but a variety of boil treatments are available. It is not uncommon for a woman infected with the herpes virus to be misdiagnosed with a yeast infection, pelvic inflammatory disease or an inflamed cervix (cervicitis). While women frequently develop vaginal herpes, it is also possible to develop lesions on the vulva, cervix, urethra, anus, thighs and buttocks. If you have unusual vaginal discharge or persistent vaginal discomfort, it is a good idea to be tested for herpes.

Genital Herpes Symptoms
The most common sign of herpes is red, sensitive skin that develops sores or blisters (often referred to as herpes bumps). These lesions usually show up in and around the genital area, although female symptoms of herpes may cause these blisters to develop inside the vagina. Other signs and symptoms of genital herpes include:

* Swollen lymph glands in the groin
* Headaches
* Muscle aches
* Fever
* Lower back pain

In women, herpes symptoms can also include vaginal discharge and pain or a burning sensation when urinating. About 25% of women will develop meningitis as a complication of their first herpes outbreak while another 10% to 15% will have troubles urinating because of their herpes.

Recurrent Herpes Outbreaks
Of those people who experienced an outbreak of herpes sores when they were first infected, 80% will go on to have recurrent outbreaks. Although these outbreaks tend to be less severe and shorter in duration than the first outbreak, they can still be just as uncomfortable. Additionally, a person is more likely to pass on the virus when they experience an outbreak.

Prior to the recurrent breakout, though, many individuals tend to experience "warning symptoms" that they are about to have another herpes episode. Often, an individual will have some pain or discomfort in the area that is infected before their herpes sores develop. During this time, you are considered to be very contagious despite the absence of herpes blisters.

Herpes Treatment
Although there is no herpes cure, there are various herpes medications available that can ease the discomfort of your symptoms and shorten the length of the herpes outbreak.

Answer 6

First of all dont just tell anybody... make sure its someone that you care about. Consider your reasons for telling them, i.e. you are starting a relationship with that person and would like to be honest. Second, let them know how it affects you to have it and that you are telling them because you want to build your trust with them... Again, dont tell just anybody. Make sure its someone with understanding. You can usually notice through a persons character if they are the secret keeping type. and last but not least, take it easy on yourself. ppl mess up,.. but that doesnt mean you have to stop loving yourself.

Answer 7

Yes. Why expose them to something without their knowledge?

That's like giving someone chemotherapy but not tell them the risks.

Answer 8

you just out right tell them honesty is the best thing when it comes down to stuff like this.

Answer 9

Before the first kiss!