2007-04-23 16:49:17 · 11 answers · asked by countyinmate_323 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ STDs
honey, i love you very much and i want to take care of you as much as i can, i have bad news that i do not want to get any worse, so we need to get you tested. i just found out i have hiv and youneed to get tested right away so we can figure out what we ned to do to control this
2007-04-23 16:53:05 · answer #1 · answered by drjen 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
well try to tell her the most honest way possible and tell her to get tested there are cases were both couples still remain together and some are infected when other is not affected but u can only no what up until u speak to her. remember love is a very powerful source of life think about her u will do right thing by telling her truth
2007-04-23 16:57:09 · answer #2 · answered by Carlos C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her and tell her soon.
You risk infecting her and any children that you have, as well as any future pregnancies. Not disclosing your status is a legal issue as well.
How you became infected is your business. You now though have an obligation legally to tell anyone that you have sex with that you now have a POS status.
Delaying the conversation only puts you at risk of possibly being charged criminally.
I would encourage you to speak to a counsellor and perhaps the two of you could speak to your wife together.
2007-04-23 17:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by guru 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I feel for you.
She is your wife, for better or for worse, right?
You must tell her right away, i would suggest that you do it in the privacy of your own home and maybe you could have one of her close friends near by in case she needs sme extra support.
She is going to get angry, that will be the first reaction, and wanting to know how it has happened, ie have you been unfaithful? and put herlife at risk possibly?
2007-04-23 21:04:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it would be smart to tell her as soon as possible don't want to spread it to her and if you know how you got it I would start with that story and after say in which I contracted HIV. then say so in order to keep you protected I have to use a condom. and Please encourage her to be tested also.
2007-04-23 16:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by mamak3849 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I`m HIV positive...Start with that!
2007-04-24 05:52:04 · answer #6 · answered by lost2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as soon as possable. if you got this yourself. she needs to know so she dont get it. she needs tested as well to make sure she hasent got it. after all isnt it the inocent ones who suffer from this. tell her the truth . sadley to say that is her right sorry to say it but fact is fact. in my opion?
2007-04-23 18:25:17 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
TELL HER FAST!!! Before she gets it!! Shes your wife, She'll love you regardless of what problems you have.
2007-04-23 18:24:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
There's no easy way.
Just tell her.
The aftermath is what will define your character.
2007-04-24 03:42:19 · answer #9 · answered by Luis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to rhema.org, you can get healed.
2007-04-24 06:34:19 · answer #10 · answered by Kendra H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋