I met this guy on internet. We were together for nearly 4 months. He seemed to have many negatives but he was very good in some ways. He finished with me because I did not tell him about my past relationship wih a moslem. He detests interrelationships. He has now made a big profile on me - A4 folder with 90 points of all negatives about me. basically tellin me that I am a bad person. He has uploaded my pics on net. He has got many of my pics and he got hold of my past applications for few jobs and CV. He is now really throwing muck at me and telling me that I have abad name in the community as I went out with a muslim.
I think what I do not like is the fact that he has dumped me. I cannot handle it. Please help.
how can i get over this feeling?
i also miss some good times we had together, how can i forget him?
2007-04-22 23:07:48 · 17 answers · asked by NALINI B 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
OK...Honey? this person really sounds like a whack job, and a stalker. Some of his activities fall into the stalker category. If you can provided proof, then most definitely go to the police, at once.
And let this bastard go. Don't even try to remember the good times, they aren't worth what he is doing to you now.
The Internet is not really a very safe place to meet people anyway.
Tear up any pictures you have of him, give away everything he ever gave you, then take a shower and visualize all thoughts of him being washed away from you and down the drain (where he belongs).
Remember if he truly loved you, your past wouldn't matter at all.
Good riddance to bad rubbish.
2007-04-23 07:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by meg3f 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear sounds like this guy has huge issues going on within himself. Try to console yourself that you have indeed had a lucky escape and the relationship did not progress any further......there would have been trouble down the line if he has this sort of hatred burning a hole inside him. I wonder can you report this libel and somehow have it all removed. It is most certainly not true and therefore you cold have a strong case against him. Why not speak to a lawyer and let him know you have done so......tell him to leave you along and go live his life through someone else (pity help them).
You know it is all fabricated on his part and he has shown himself up....not you.
Forget him, move on, there are so many much nicer people out there.
2007-04-23 02:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually a person who really loves you will not give you tears,instead he will keep tears for him self and give you smile & joy. Thats what love really means. It is cristal clear that your true love has betrayed you. Don't worry since you are not the first to undergo this type of a problem. My advice for you is to keep yourself bussy for about 2 or 3 weeks. That will help you to distract your mind from the current problem and I' m sure that you will forget this problem though not the person with the time so easilly than you think. And with the time you will understand the bitter reality of betraiyal, which will help you even to forget the person. Nonetheless why worry about a racist like him, instead you should be happy that you escaped from a deadly trap.
2007-04-22 23:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by mark 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Re read what you have written above, every time you think you ever had anything worth having with this person! This has never been anyone that ever loved you, and he sounds pretty mentally unbalanced.This person's actions are way immature and go well beyond simply just dumping you and way into dumping *on* you. Go look for someone with brain cells, and please consider getting counseling to find out why you even think you ever deserved someone who treats people like that, you are aiming way to low!
2007-04-22 23:22:03 · answer #4 · answered by beatlefan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you cant be friends with him ,think about all the bad things about him it will keep your focus off the good things you liked about him,move on find a new friend one thats not so judgemental next time tell your new friend up front if you are not ashamed of your life then you need to dump him as a person ,you should have pointed out all his flaws ,then dumped him right back dont let him have the last word,give it right back to him ,let him have it good ,you dont heed some one thats going to rag on you like that and make you feel bad about his opinion of you ,you know who you are ,dont let no man tell you who or what you are or should be,get pissed off that will help you forget the friend part,just dont stay pissed ,let him go !!! good luck honey
2007-04-22 23:24:13 · answer #5 · answered by KATHY A W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put on some songs like Alanis Morisette "Jagged Little Pill" album. Ignore what he says about you - rise above it - you're better than that!
You are a GOOD person and even better now that you have this scum out of your life. Get a new hairdo and a new outfit and get away from your computer this weekend and go and and party.
2007-04-22 23:10:52 · answer #6 · answered by Carrie S 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ok here's my straight up answer... "Who cares!" If you feed into it... You weak... Remember the movie rush hour? They said in that movie you let people talk to find out how full of •••• they really are... You're be the better person just by ignoring... People are always gonna talk, you can't ever shut someone up... You're be the better person by ignoring the gossip cause you feed into it, guess what u weak!
2016-05-17 04:18:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds very forgetable to me and as though you have had a lucky escape - he sounds deranged and certainly not someone to contemplate having a relationship with. Don't worry, you will find someone else and then you won't think about him again.
2007-04-23 00:38:43 · answer #8 · answered by LillyB 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time heals everything.If he loves you he accepts your past. he's not worth thinking of, do you know all about his past??are you sure he did not date a Muslim????
He has no right to judge you even if you dated a Muslim or whatever!!!
find someone else who's more human.
2007-04-22 23:16:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Wow, that guy's a control freak.
Wash your worries away by:
-Go to McDonalds, and give the trainees a hard time.
-Go to Walmart, and give the trainees a hard time.
-Eat ice cream. Or yogurt.
2007-04-22 23:10:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋