My girlfriend got married last year to some guy, she just says he's
an ex-boyfriend. well I found out about her getting married should I tell her.
2007-04-22 21:00:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is divorced now
2007-04-22 21:17:57 · update #1
Obviously this bothers you, and the situation needs to be addressed.
2007-04-22 21:03:09 · answer #1 · answered by ṡ๓υгƒєtt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She didnt tell you she got married and says it is "just an ex boyfriendz' and didnt say any more about it?? Strange to say the least! That is hardly a little thing to keep from someone. .If she keeps something that big away from you makes you wonder what else there is. Good luck with that!!
2007-04-22 21:18:32 · answer #2 · answered by Linda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i individually do not think of it somewhat is actual love with this new guy. i've got seen this ensue time, and time back with a pair of my girlfriends. They get out of an prolonged term courting, flow directly to the subsequent guy right now, and finally end up married. i think of they simply will not be able to deal with being on my own regardless of if it skill they don't quite love the guy they're with. in the tip they finally end up divorced back. She feels in charge on the grounds which you somewhat enjoyed her with all you had, and he or she became into with you for the incorrect motives. to not say she did not love you, yet while she had doubts from the commencing up then you definately weren't her one. it is not something you probably did incorrect, she shouldn't not have permit it flow on for 6 years.
2016-12-10 09:09:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How sure are you she got married last year? do you have proof or someone just told you. You better check it correctly if its really true and not just gossip. Because if you confronted her and its just gossip she will think you don't trust her and the problem might just get bigger. but if your sure. talk to her. ask her why she keep such information from you. Try to address the problem sooner because it obviously affect you. There's always reason for everything. For sure, she has good reason to keep such information from you, if she really does got married.
Good luck!
2007-04-22 21:20:15 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you need to bring that up. You will not have a good bf/gf relationship as long as something so major is kept under the table.
Get her to open up about what happened, or else this is going to bother you.
2007-04-22 21:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by Susan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, just bear it in mind and in your head the relationship is over. Use her for sex until you find someone else.
But as soon as you decide to dump her tell her you know shes married anyway.
2007-04-22 21:14:05 · answer #6 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No dont tell. maybe she is gathering courage to tell you about this. Give her the time. She will tell you oneday. You just keep yourself very honest in this relationship. Listen her. Be her friend forever. After learning from her that she got married it will be your decision to leave her or to be with her.
2007-04-22 21:08:33 · answer #7 · answered by Shakeel Ahmed 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If it bothers you, you should talk to her about it. If her ex is no longer in the picture...then she has moved on from him being a part of her life. Why should her past have anything to do with you?
2007-04-22 21:06:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hell yea..If she loved you enough than she would have told you this very important thing, don't you think. If she is hiding this from you what else is she hiding from you. why don't you just tell her what you know and hear what she has to say about it...
2007-04-22 21:12:34 · answer #9 · answered by phibie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously if it a problem why are you still with her. Don't waste your time if she cares bout you she will tell you but worse she is married don't take it lying down
2007-04-22 21:05:41 · answer #10 · answered by sheadrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋