ok so i recently evaluated my life and this is how it is: I have no more girlfriend and am heartbroken but have messed around with other girls. I am not satisfied everyone of those girls i messed around with i have no future with. Last year i got jumped by this gang and the people that jumped me live 2 blocks from my house so everytime im in my own neighborhood its dangerous. my neighborhood has a lot of gang problems. I am doing good in school. The only thing i have to look forward to is getting my license in 4 months. I am really bad without a girlfriend but can only find girls to mess around with. I dont do much on the weekends because i dont have my license yet. everyday i think about how unsatisfied i am with my life. Maybe i should move and start fresh? Maybe i should try finding a good girlfriend? Maybe i should wait until i get a license and see if my better social life makes me happy? what should i do to be happy?
2007-04-22 20:47:54 · 10 answers · asked by robin c 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i also have no best friend anymore. i dont have TRUE friends anymore. every night i find myself thinking about my ex and how unsatisfied i am with my life and hope for change good change What will make me happy? I try to be nice and be good person but no one ever appreciates me or the things i do....
2007-04-22 20:51:55 · update #1
I AM15 yes i am young but dont judge me because i am a teenager and because ill have a license a car and no job i think i may be happier with my life. the girl i mess around with keeps bugging me to get a job and i do have too much free time maybe getting a job will solve things? i always told myself not to get a job till its necessary and enjoy being young trying not to grow so fast (with the exception of the license)
2007-04-22 20:56:16 · update #2
I'm a bit confused on how old you are......no license? are you 15? or are you older and had violation...no license.....waiting to get it back? well, anyhow, the first step is to realize that a woman is NOT going to fix your problems with your unsatisfaction in your life. You need to find your inner happiness and go from there....you seem like a smart guy, you'll figure it out....good luck!
2007-04-22 20:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by ali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Gang is not a family look in your area for someone to get you out of the gang You endanger yourself and your family Find a group that works to helps get rid of the gangs Focus on education it can take you any where Eduaction is the key to opening the door to your future You are important and you will suceed.Forget the girls focus on yourself and think if I did not live here what do I want to do .Then think when I get out and suceed what can I do to come back yes come back to make my community better.It takes a community and for people to stand up and not take it anymore.Get your self started on living your life for the purpose you were put on this earth You are IMPORTANT make a differnce
2007-04-23 04:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by chameleon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your situation. Yes, you should enjoy being young. And you should get a job, but not at a fast food place or anything. You should get a job at your local mall, you'll be busier and not as bored. Listen to music. I bought these Cd's to help me, maybe they'll help you too. 1. Robin Thicke 2. India Irie 3. Sammie...And as for the whole fake friends thing...my advice...get them out of your sight, of course your going to be depressed for a while but when you get back to you fun-self you'll be okay. And make an effort to get new friends. Go to concerts. Look for girls in the mall to flirt with. And what I do to let some anger out...write poetry. ~With Love~
2007-04-23 19:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by Chicago 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would first complete my studies and try to settle with the person i really have feelings for. Starting a new life when im really ready for it.
At 15 you need to first concentrate on your studies,think of a job and get a better neighbourhood.
If all fails give your life to JESUS christ read the bible and get someone in that line to explain what you do not understand with the bible you cant go wrong
2007-04-23 04:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by Musumba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not say how old you are. If you are old enough, get your license, get a job, and get out of the neighborhood. If you are in college, you can get a loan to help you with your schooling and your rent.
If you are not old enough, just concentrate on your education, so that you can get out of that neighborhood when you get older.
Don't give up, you will have a better life, if you work towards it. Good Luck!!!
2007-04-23 04:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful going out sounds like you might have some problems with the gang thing. As for your ex, I think alot has happened to you quickly. Hang in there sounds like things will get better. focus on you for right now and let things come your way.
2007-04-23 04:04:22 · answer #6 · answered by grayeyes4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would enjoy my life, i would stop looking for someone else or something else to complete me. you are young and alive. enjoy it. make a ten year plan for your life, think beyond the license and think about the car you want to buy, think about college and career, its all ahead of you
2007-04-23 03:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by worldstiti 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking to the internet for answers, and make up your own mind on what you want to do. Sounds blunt, because it is. It's painfully simple.
2007-04-23 03:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by ICantHelpIt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn that "not having a license" is a horrible excuse
2007-04-23 03:52:31 · answer #9 · answered by Vinny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was in your shoes, i'd be like: man, your feet stink!!
2007-04-23 04:00:22 · answer #10 · answered by DZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋