I'm 33 and I'm not comfortable with the attention. How come I'm meeting guys whom wants to get physical with me ? I'm always in knee length skirt, and long sleeve top, I'm curvy but there isn't much I can do about hiding it. I'm tired of it. I hold conversation well, and can usually talk about any topics but why I kept on getting the wrong attention ? I'm thinking of cutting my hair short. Guys also seem to like my mouth, damn it ... I don't think I do suggestive move with my mouth when I talk. I have lots of female friends and I talk to them just the same. What's wrong with me ?
2007-04-22 19:46:47 · 20 answers · asked by asianprincess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not bi, I'm looking for good man, thats it. I'm sick of meeting men whom I though are good, and shortly ... they are after that. I'm 33 and I'm so disillusioned.
2007-04-22 19:52:40 · update #1
I'm not bi, I'm looking for good man, thats it. I'm sick of meeting men whom I though are good, and shortly ... they are after that. I'm 33 and I'm so disillusioned.
2007-04-22 19:52:43 · update #2
thanks for all the wonderful advise, i do have issues to deal with i admit, 33 and single but that is different issue. many thanks.
2007-04-22 19:58:42 · update #3
I'm not a touchy person, but friendly and appear confident (but not that confident actually).
2007-04-22 20:06:00 · update #4
Yeah, sometimes I think I'm too sexy. Too sexy for my shirt.
Kinda conceited aren't we?
Yes, yes we are.
2007-04-22 19:50:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
What's wrong with you? You have no concept of FILTERING.
"Oh no, men are paying are paying attention to me!!! <:O" Just stop it. Do you have any idea what men would do for the upper hand that you women have (especially if you're as attractive as you say you are)? Do you not realize that you hold ALL the cards? If all the men flock to you, is should be a simple matter of weeding out the d*cks, and hanging on to the nice ones. If other men see that you're being selective with who you choose to let lavish their attention on you, the nice guys in the world will get the hint and try to approach you with their best Prince Charming face. You should consider yourself DAMN lucky for what you have.
2007-04-23 02:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're sex appeal is just oozing especially to young guys. Young guys tend to like older women especially early 30's but the age doesnt really matter as long as you have the appeal, even women who appreciate the beauty of other women say it. Just don't mind them and think there are a lot of women dying to have guys attention yet here you are having a problem with that. No matter what you do to yourself, even if you cut your hair or not, still your appeal is there...it's not physical, it's unexplainable feeling that guys feel when they see you. It's a gift..treasure it coz not everybody has it. Stay sexy and beautiful girl!
2007-04-23 02:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by alexynne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know you therefore I have no idea what type of personality you have or anything. One thing I might guess right off hand is that you are a touchy feely person. In other words, you use your hands a lot and tend to touch the people and maybe rub their hand or arm while you are talking to them.
This, to many people, is a signal that you want more than casual conversation.
2007-04-23 02:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. There is just a world full or horny men out there. Just try to weed through the bad ones, and find that one special one that is just right for you! Tell the rest to get lost!!!
2007-04-23 02:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe that fact that you are trying to be unsexy is actually sexy...they probably meet so many skanky women that you are like a breath of fresh air!! plus mystery and full-clothes women are definately sexy..maybe you have that aura!!! the less you want the attention..the more you'll get it..cos you are acting not like an average chick..but that's cool..just learn to deal with it.
2007-04-23 02:51:56 · answer #6 · answered by Feodora 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with YOU? Nothing. Guys are the problem, they can't talk to a woman without thinking sexual thoughts. Be proud that your sexy. Just know to keep away from the perverts, and believe me... you'll know who they are.
2007-04-23 02:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by sexymama38 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with you, it's the men that you are referring to that have a problem. unfortunately beauty is put way above other aspects when it comes to women. you'll find the right guy. instead of waitng for guys to hit on you, why dont' you hit on them? ask your friends to fix you up.
2007-04-23 02:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by erselius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shave your head, don't shave you legs or pits(make sure to wear shorts and wife beaters, strecthing you arms alot), pig out on anything deep fried, you'll be a repulsive, disgusting pig in no time.
2007-04-23 02:50:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you honey! Your just beautiful! Enjoy the attention and when they act like they only want sex, tell em you wished! And just know they were not the one, when you meet the right guy you know, he wont only want booty!
2007-04-23 02:50:42 · answer #10 · answered by HBIC 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
33 and single you must have some major problem. It could be your imagination.
2007-04-23 02:51:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋