I was hanging out with my boyfriend and his guy friend. We were at my house for a while, then we went to the park, and finally we went to his house. I work night shift so I can't stay with him during the night and I worked the last two nights. One night he was at the bar and I talked to him after he came home and he said he was there alone. The other night I also talked to him and he said he was there alone. (At least at the time I called) So today when I was there I saw one Marbro Light ciggerette in the ashtray. Then he has a large pillow on his couch where he sleeps at night and I noticed it was a different pillow then what he usually lays on. I said what happened to the blue pillow? He said I washed it and it was too dry to dry in the dryer so it's laying over there to dry. I asked what happened to the pillow that it needed to be washed, and went on to say did you throw up on it, ect. His friend asked if he c*mmed on it. Then we went to leave and my boyfriend was laughing.
2007-04-22 18:09:01 · 9 answers · asked by juniper 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He got in the car and I said what the hell are you laughing about? He wouldn't answer. I said I'm not leaving until you tell me what is so funny. Finally he said his friend's name. I just started to think that maybe he really did c*m on the pillow while he was with someone else while I was at work, and that is why he thought it was so funny.
2007-04-22 18:11:09 · update #1
ok, you seem very paranoid. What does a Marlboro cigarette have to do with anything? You didn't say whether your bf smoked or not. I don't know what's so weird about him washing a pillow. Maybe he did *** on it.....that doesn't mean he had another chick on it. Men jerk off all the time. Maybe he did it alone. I see no reason for you to be that paranoid. But if you have doubts like this, why are you with a man that hangs out in bars while you work???? I would eliminate that problem right away. It's obvious you don't trust him. So you need to put a stop to his bar-hopping, or find a man that doesn't need to go party or drink all the time w/out his woman!!! Good luck
2007-04-22 18:18:14 · answer #1 · answered by Jenintn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds fishy to me. Why don't you do some investigating like on your night off work tell him your going to work and when your leaving go to a friends house and have your friend go with you and go back to the house and see what he is doing or do you have a way to get him on videotape? You could do that or maybe hire a private detective if you can. Meanwhile, search for any other hints that he could be cheating some of those would be
1. Has a different attitude towards you and only you.
2. Stays out late without telling you and comes home to shower right away.
3. Brushes his teeth right when he gets home.
4. Any unknown women calling your house.
5. Phone numbers in his pocket or any other place you find them.
6. Lack of if any sex.
7. Smells like another woman and like sex.
I hope you get to the bottom of this and find out what's going on you have every right to ease your mind don't let anyone tell you different especially since he caused it himself by doing what he did. It also doesn't make any sense how the pillow was too dry to dry in the dryer? If the pillow was already dry why did it need to be layed out to dry? Then his friend jokes about that and both of them laugh about it. You have a right to be wondering.
2007-04-23 01:32:06 · answer #2 · answered by Momof1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you arrange to take a night off from work but tell the people that you work with if he calls to say that you're busy and that you'll call him back.meanwhile tell him that you're working that night and not to call you unless it's an emergency cause you'll be really busy at work.( yeah right, lol). Stake out his house and watch to see what he does for a night.Maybe you'll find out something or maybe not not.Either way you find something out.Try doing that a couple of different times just in case to ease your mind one way or the other.Good luck.
2007-04-23 01:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by Yahooanswerssux 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Haven't you heard the saying, "If you think your man is cheating, then he is?" Why don't you just ask him. If you do and you still don't feel better, than maybe you should just drop him. What's the point in getting yourself all worked up and becoming your own version of Nancy Drew and "investigating?" Insecure women stoop to that level. I say "If you can't trust him, dump him." If that doesn't work for you, you can always call "Cheaters."
2007-04-23 01:41:44 · answer #4 · answered by phillysweets17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, the way u think is quite right he could be but it will be too sonn concluding tht he is having affair wid sum one. guys r bit funny n they do thing tht irritates sum times but its in their nature try to have some faith in ur relationship n try to spend sum quality time with him the way u r worried about him shows how much u care for him let him know wht you feel . sumtimes its better to communicate rather than have a doubt in ur mind n try to take things lightly and if u still fells tht he might be having thn show him tht if he can be with sum one so can u . i think if he is really interested in u he will realize the fact n u both will care foe each other even more . remember life is too short to search for new parterners every time.
cheers,
RAJ
2007-04-23 01:48:47 · answer #5 · answered by RAJ DEOL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump to any conclusion just yet. Do, however, do some investigating if you really feel something is wrong. Women usually have a good sense for those things. Good Luck!
2007-04-23 01:17:49 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omogsh girl i hope he didnt that would be horrible. so what is the signifgance of the marlboro light, is that not the kind him and his freinds smoke? was there lip stick or chap stick by the mouth part? i wish i could help more. got u other reply on my q and thank you *HUGS* !!! i tried to email u off ur profile but it wont let me says my email is disabled so you can email if u want to me its singlechick26@yahoo.com. have a good nite !!
UPDATE: hottie is stalking me now. she was on my q http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnHlmjglAbH_c_RGYNzTf1Hsy6IX?qid=20070422222344AAkPp9a You know the one u asnwerd real nice about my babys dad she wrote a bunch of nasty stuff to me aobut my babys dad. i hope she hasnt redirected her rage from her ex bf onto me ( and you ? ) i reprorted her
2007-04-23 01:14:20 · answer #7 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he IS cheating on you cuz this happened to some ugly girl in my sister's class. While you were working, he brought another hotter girl home, had sex with her, then cummed on his regular pillow, then he cuddled with her. He is doing you a favour, you are probably ugly anyways.
2007-04-23 01:28:14 · answer #8 · answered by Britney 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it's the world strange
2007-04-23 01:23:40 · answer #9 · answered by Ai Ping 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋