im currently pregnant with my bf of 3 years second child. yet i feel as though averything is crap sometimes. i feel like i dont get enough affection and this makes me feel kinda unfulfilled. ive tried talking to him about it but it mostly irritates him. he says he loves me but i still feel as though he doesnt. i personally do not know my father and i want my 2 children to have their father like i never did. most of the time he doesnt even give me a hug or a kiss when he comes home from work. and all he does is watch movies after work...which...is pretty sucky to me. we never do things on our own without the baby. someone else always has to be involved in some way or another. im pretty emotional and it seems like hes always irritated at me even if i ask him a simple question. ive been depressed most of my life but there always seems to be something wronge in some way and it doesnt help that im self contious most of the time. my minds always working and worrying and never stops
2007-04-22 17:51:44 · 3 answers · asked by howicouldkillaman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are experiencing insecurity. Many women do when they are pregnant. They don't feel very attractive, and on top of that, the man usually stops treating them like a lover and starts treating them like a mother. I would not trust my judgment right now, if I were you. Your hormones are going crazy. Wait until after the baby is here for a few months. Your hormones will go back to normal, and your husband will probably start craving more alone time with you. If he doesn't, then would be the time to become concerned.
2007-04-22 18:12:05 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would help to consult some expert orcounseling or a parent to guide you and your bf. since there are kids involved, parenting is important in this stage. don't let your depression get you... and do talk to your man about how it makes you feel. maybe he can do some adjustment since you're pregnant and have more important needs than him anyhow... don't be too depressed while you're pregnant... take good care of yourself and do talk your bf about it... goodluck
2007-04-23 00:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by ♬müsic-to-yoür-ears♬ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thak you for sharing thar with us
2007-04-23 00:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by skcs11 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋