talkin about loving you and wanting to move in with you and that he wants your kids. then in the bedroom not pulling out and saying " oohhh let me *** in you i wnat ur baby " then when u get preg he yells @ you and never talks to u again. what would casue a guy to do thi
2007-04-22 17:32:28 · 15 answers · asked by lady26 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
vjaxxon - im not on welfare you stupid *****
2007-04-22 17:38:20 · update #1
Audi you are a moron i dont even have children from a previous relationship.. learn to read before u judge so shame on YOU ( not me ! )
2007-04-22 18:46:37 · update #2
I know that it hurts Lady26, but keep your head up. Most guys will do anything and say anything for some action. One of my guy friends told me that as soon as they get you in bed then they can do a 180 and treat you however they want to as at that point the woman is too in love to leave him. If they stay with you after they get you pregnant then they can even treat you worse as they know then that you are not going ANYWHERE. But keep looking there is good guys out there, I haven't met one yet but I guess they exist. They are kind of like GOD he's around but you never see him. I thought I had a good one until today but now I have to think about if I'm going to keep him around or not. I wish I could speak to you privately on e-mail sometime, but I don't know your address. It's cool if you don't wanna let me know it, but you can e-mail me if you want, my address is on my profile page.
2007-04-22 17:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by juniper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess you can never really tell how someone is going to react until they get there. Apparently he's a dumb ***, thats also a very selfish thing to do, if it's not planned. Ultimatly you should force guys to use condoms, no condom = no sex :)
2007-04-23 00:44:48 · answer #2 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are old enough to have children from a previous relationship, yet here you are...men will say anything to have sex...and from the sounds of it you weren't enforcing the safe sex rule...so shame on you.
2007-04-23 01:36:28 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Instantkarma♥♫ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For one you should pray. You had sex out of the bonds of marrage and he has no obligation to stay with you. At first he probably wanted to get you in the sack. mission accomplished. then he got caught up in the heat of the moment. and oops you got pregnant. I guess he decited he didn't want the responsability of a child. We all pay for our sins in one way or another. Love yourself and respect others
2007-04-23 00:40:41 · answer #4 · answered by troubble 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
again...MEN ARE PIGS!!! Men also LIE THROUGH THEIR TEETH!!!! It's hard because there are rarely any DECENT guys out there. You just learned the hard way. Don't ever let him do that unless you are married to them and are serious about having children together.
2007-04-23 00:38:00 · answer #5 · answered by mrs_me19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man that is abusive. He needs therepy! You need to get away from him. Go to your family so that you have some support. He is using your emotions to control you. Be careful honey. For your sake and your babies.
2007-04-23 00:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by Glory3059 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An irresponsible one!! Do not get involved with such a guy!
Unless you like being treated like crap!!
2007-04-23 00:39:15 · answer #7 · answered by sun_beam61 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
During sex, guys as well as girls, will say things like this. Tell him that he helped make it and he should help take care of it.
2007-04-23 00:37:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone that very well need medication! Put it behind you and move on.
2007-04-23 02:09:43 · answer #9 · answered by buckcreekb2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was just lust. If this guy cared at all he wouldn't have knocked you up and dumped you afterwards.
2007-04-23 00:44:39 · answer #10 · answered by Momof1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋