Im dating a guy, weve only been dating for a month and i like him a lot.
However im in love with someone else. But this other guy has made it perfectly clear to me that we will never have a relationship again (we use to go out). But that doesnt stop me from loving him.
Does loving this other guy technically mean im cheating on my boyfriend (i read somewhere emotional feelings is the same as cheating) ?
I dont think it does but what do you think ?
2007-04-22 15:18:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you're cheating on your boyfriend. You're cheating on yourself. Don't worry yourself over it, it will pass. It's OK to think about your ex every now and then, but pay attention to reality. Do you even like the guy you're dating now?
2007-04-22 15:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might not answer your question, but I think you need to take a step back and look at what's going on here. If you have feelings for the other guy, why are you with the other one? You need some time to yourself to examine what you want out of a relationship and then work towards that. You don't have to "settle" for an unfulfilling relationship just because you think you have to...you should be with someone you really care about or you're better off being alone and developing your own happiness on your own. Then you will attract the right one into your life.
2007-04-22 15:27:35 · answer #2 · answered by Beach Bum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion no it isn't cheating. When you fall in love with someone you usually continue to have some sort of feelings for them even if the relationship fails. You just move on and find a different love with a new person. That is like saying if a widow gets married but still thinks about his dead wife he is cheating. Love rarely completely dies. Also for some they fall in love many times over. To me cheating is much more than emotional feelings. It is more of acting on the emotional feelings making it physical without breaking it off with the other person. Emotional thought is something we all have about many things and to me is no different than daydreaming or fantasizing about stuff. Unless you act on your feelings or it affects your relationship it is no big deal. Just try to move forward with your new boyfriend and realize that what was will never be again.
2007-04-22 15:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by momof3boys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-28 17:43:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I don't think so. The question you should be asking yourself is why do I love someone who "has made it perfectly clear to me that we will NEVER HAVE A RELATIONSHIP AGAIN." He's rejected you. He doesn't care for you. He isn't in love with you. So why are you pining away for some guy who is completely emotionally detached from you?
2007-04-22 15:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think that it is wrong to date someone while in love with someone else BUT I wouldn't call it cheating. In my opinion it's not cheating unless you physically do something with another person. So you aren't cheating but I still don't think it's fair to your boyfriend.
2007-04-22 15:23:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating isnt cheating until you get physical but if you are having feeling for somone else than you are not too into the person you are with and it really isn't right for you to be leading someone on I learned karma... so becareful because one thing can lead to another
2007-04-22 15:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by lorig23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not cheating. Only time will heal that wound. One day you'll wake up and realise you're no longer pining for him. Just enjoy your new b/f. He's the best antidote.
2007-04-22 15:23:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to put a name on it? The bottom line is that you love someone but you're dating another.
2007-04-22 15:23:22 · answer #9 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its cheating, but I do think you should inform your current bf that you still like the guy you used to go out with. I'd want to know if I was him.
2007-04-22 15:22:44 · answer #10 · answered by crash27_m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋