me vs. my mom?

Question

well i'm 16 and in the 11th grade and my parents just moved me to a new skool which is crappy enough as it is, but recently i've been having problems with my mom.
it all started about 2 weeks ago when my mom was trying to force me to call family members and talk to them for 15 minutes, shes calls this a socail recovery program because i'm socailly retarded around family members when in reality i just hate my extended family.
but neways when she tryed to force me to do this i retaliated and just said i wouldnt do it because i dont think i should be forced to talk to ppl i dont even like. a few minutes later she called me a b*tch and i left the house because i was pissed and couldnt be around her nemore.
i came back 20 minutes later and got locked in my room for the rest of the day. now i'm on probation and cant leave the house or visit with my friends. (btw i got no apology for what she called me).
idk what to do. was i right to leave? what do i do now? PLEASE HELP!

Answer 1

Your right, there is no reason for you to be forced to talk to these guys. And she isn't doing the right thing to get you good at relating to your family members, seems she is taking the easy way and forceing you to figure out the hard part. Locked you in your room? Man very controlling, sorry about that situation. I wish I could tell you some cure all but your dealing with some major deep-seeded issues from your mom..... Man maybe you guys need some thearpy, or atleast you could use that against her and tell her unless you guys get some one outside the situation who well look at from an outside observes stand point, you don't want to talk about it anymore. Because I think that might be the only thing thats going to help you here, doing it by yourself would mean you'd have to learn socology and physcology along with alittle from all the religions out there, not an easy thing, so yea you guys need some outside help!