have you ever wondered why things are the way they they are?

Question

so my life just freakin sucks nobody likes me yes i mean boys they always go for the good looking people and my friend i always have to watch how people go out with her and just not pay any attention to me and i just keep on wondering what i did in life to deserve this and people always say that there will be someone who will like me from the inside but i know thats bullshit and i know that you dont give a **** about me is that right

Answer 1

Your only as pretty as you think you are! You need to work on your selfesteem and then guys will notice you. If your unhappy I always find that a major change works... try to revamp your look - its summer soon, buy some clothes that are different than you would generally wear - cut your hair - change your makeup... anything... just make some changes to yourself that will make you happy, and make you feel more attractive - guys will start to notice you and pay more attention to you as soon as you are confident and feel good about yourself.

Answer 2

I wish you were right, but alas not for me it isn't true, hence why I answer your question. Ether way your dealing with the same social problems as the rest of us, shoot I feel your pain I've been there myself. It does become a different field of play as you get older get a job or go to colleage, but its still sort of the same popularity game. Your first big step would be to see that social problem in the first place. Namly that were not all created equal. Yea they'll say all kinds of things to keep themselves from having to accept how much you really do need, but I'm sure you can feel how it all comes up short on making you feel happy. But the fact is we base a lot of our relationships on sexual attractiveness and this kind blocks out alot of us. Also most relationships are not very deep and go along the lines of romantic love, which only when you get older, do you see (hopfully) isn't possible for all of us. Not to say you won't find love, you'll just have to do it the right way. Find friends! I know, not easy, but as long as your charaters good you'll began to find people that give a fling f about whats going on with you on the inside and out. Hopfully, in time, you'll find a gentlemen who does the samething. Just realize in that territory, that friends can make lovers, but lovers don't always make good friends. Also began to step your perception out from under what bs society is trying to teach you and began to see the real issues. It well help you see were everyone else is coming from.... its a long road and help is going to be hard to find... better to count on yourself and hopfully those friends you'll find, I'll give you want I can, as long as you ask, but you've been born into quite a mess here. Just realize some of us are smart enough to see it for what it is.....